u/GabagoolFool123

Had a first FET fail, HCG was 4.6 at 9 days post transfer. Started bleeding 5 days after I stopped meds. It was a day 7 embryo so we knew it was a lower chance. I was bummed when it didn’t work out but was excited to go straight into another transfer. Went in today for my baseline ultrasound and labs. Turns out my HCG is now 52. So now we have to wait to move forward until my level gets down to below 5. And hope it’s not ectopic. Almost laughing at this point how a bad situation somehow finds a way to become even worse. Please tell me I’m not the only one who’s experienced this.

Trying to come to terms that my first FET failed. But what I’m having a hard time accepting is I’ve been pregnant 4 times. I’ve gotten pregnant each time the literal first try. But obviously can’t get them to stay, which is why we turned to IVF. I can’t wrap my head around how I’ve continually gotten pregnant naturally with bad embryos that stick around a few weeks, but this 5AA euploid in an ideal environment didn’t even implant. It was fully medicated, so do I try next time with modified natural? I naively never considered that it wouldn’t even implant. I was just worried about getting past the first 6-8 weeks, which is when we lost the others. Feeling so blind sighted right now. Anyone have any experience or words of wisdom to share?