Is there anyway to make him stop?
We have been together for 5 years. We are married with children, one of which is severely medically complex. So life is extremely busy and stressful. My husband was not shy about being bi when we got together. I was fine with it. We’ve even engaged in it together. I set boundaries. I go along. I say and do the things he asks/wants/kinks. I get into it. I try. Then I find out that he’s on Reddit,snap,Facebook and emails talking to other women and men. Completely behind my back. This was a major major boundary for me. Literally not even an hr after we play together he’s online begging other people. I confront him and he completely shut me down. Will not talk about it. Promises to stop and that’s it. Well he promised to stop less than a month ago, and I recently found even more. New stuff. I feel like I alone will never be enough for him. So I’ve agreed to others, but only WITH me. He can’t seem to include me anymore. I know everyone answer will be to leave him…any other advice as that’s not something I can do.