u/Healthyarses

I miss affection but sex I really don't care if I never have it again. I don't even masturbate.

I can't seem to access any desire for it anymore, and I'm not sure I want to.

It took me about 30 years to understand that I was chasing intimacy through sex and never actually finding it there. Funny how long that can take.

Anyone else had a big shift like this?