My girlfriend 18F lied to me 19M, she went through my laptop accessed my ig and lied non stop about it. where do i even go about this?
Gonna keep this short and sweet to save everyones time. weve been dating 2 months, she went onto my laptop while i was out, logged into my instagram and sent screenshots of my private dms with my friends, and ex talking stages to her friends. i found out about this a week after it happened, i asked her what the screenshots -of my chats- were on her phone, to which she replied it was something personal to one of her friends. i didnt believe her so i said let me see she snatched the phone and moved the screenshots to her my eyes only on snap chat. she then continued to lie about it until i looked at them. I was a bit wierded out but didnt think it was that deep. i then asked her did she send that to anyone, to which she replied "no i only described them" i asked her again, she said the same thing. she then said go through my phone if you dont believe me, so i went through her messages with the friend she said it was her personal thing about and low and behold the screenshots are there saved in chat. can i be with someone who just lies to my face for the sake of 'not wanting to upset me' . i broke up with her after this and she cried and begged me to stay. genuinley after like 2 hours of this i finally let her stay, i cant forsibly remove her... things have gone relatively back to normal now. She said shw only went through my phone becauae i had a bracelet my ex gave me on. to give you her side of the story originally when we started dating i said my mun gave it to me. one night i looked at it with her and said idek why i have this on my ex gave it to me and dashed it. she said that lie made her inaecure. like darling at the start of our relationship i wasent gonna say my ex got me this am i??? plus i liked it, not that it made me think of her it was just cool ffs.
we had an incident a week before this too, where she was still chatting to loads of guys she had slept with and i just said leave if you wanna keep chatting to them idgaf... she removed them
idk ive noticed a lottt of red flags and feel like i need to gtfo, but i enjoy my time when were together.
shes 1st year uni in glasgow but has had 3somes (devils) and loads of sex with randoms in her first year at uni, she said she lacked self respect. one thing that kinda stuck with me though was she said someone came to her dorm room asking for water, started to flirt with her and they shagged same night...idk kinda hard to respect her because 1 that happened so recently 2 id see that shit on porn hub. i know i shouldnt judge pasts and im only using this as an illustration to my next point. is it proppppperly wrong to say a bit more exclusivity on her body would be nice simply because if someones getting it for nada what am i doin here. im a dickhead, i know, this is just what id rather. dont focus in this, working on myself and getting over all dat.
she said everyone else just wanted her body im the only one who can see past that. she blames toxic past relationships for the lying.
the begging when we broke up was brutalllllllll on her knees crying shouting apoligising idek man.
sorry this turned out long. let me know youe opinions, stay safe people.