u/MeaningParticular504

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Gym crush

I (21m) had seen a girl at my gym last week who I took a liking to. I noticed her giving me some glances in the mirror, so I gave some back. After a couple of sets she took her pump cover off. But I didn’t psyche myself out, she’s jacked I’m sure she was checking herself out. Next time I saw her I introduced myself and I told her I like her style. Afterward I said have a great workout because I didn’t want to linger. She was pretty receptive and I could tell she liked what I said. The next time I saw her she smiled at me and said hi. We never spoke because she was training with a friend and I don’t want to force anything. We spoke again the day after and I asked about her training. The conversation was a little awkward but that’s how meeting people can be. As I was backing away she complimented my pants a couple of times. I mentioned we should workout sometime as I walked away and she smiled and said ok. Her smiles don’t seem forced to me. I haven’t spoken to her since but she’s social with some regulars and gym staff. Last time I saw her she was talking to another guy and there was just no way I could find a way to talk to her. All the interactions happened in the space of 3 days.

I feel like I succeeded in not looking like a creep but I obviously want to ask her out. How should I proceed?

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