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Im supposed to donate tomorrow but i caught a flo is that a problem

I just moved to Germany and the girl I’m sharing the house with is white. She’s really nice and has helped me with a lot of things so far. But she keeps bringing her male friends over and lets them spend the night in the living room. I told her this makes me uncomfortable, and she said okay, she wouldn’t do it again. But today she did it again without my permission. I’m really not comfortable, and I don’t know what to do. I’m in a strange country with strange people, and everything feels different and weird here. People literally seem to have no limits.

And my parents would kill me if they found out lol. But honestly, even aside from that, I genuinely feel nervous when they do this. No matter how much I try to explain that I’m not comfortable having men around, they don’t really seem to understand. I don’t want to keep insisting or create problems because they’re basically the only people I know in this country, so I feel really lost. Sometimes I regret sharing a house with someone from a different culture because our boundaries and expectations are so different.