Aitk for thinking this way or is this normal?
I (24F) dating my 24M bf since 4 years. We are dating to marry and our families know about us.
He says he puts me on the same level as his family members but I just feel the difference all the time. He never talk to me in front of them like if someone comes up to talk to him when I’m on the call he never tell them that I’m talking to my gf and we can talk later. Like we are in ldr and he lives with his family we talk like 1-2 hrs a day and if someone calls him and comes up to talk to him he expects me to wait but don’t ask others to wait.
When he came to meet me, his sister called him, he talked to her even though we were going somewhere and he was driving he couldn’t tell her that he is driving and will talk later whereas if it would have been me he would have told me that he will call me after some time.
On my birthday he gifted me AirPods and on his sister’s birthday too he gifted her AirPods. But the difference is that he gifted her the latest one and the expensive one and when it came to me he bought the cheapest one. Also he doesn’t even have good relation with his sister, he always cribs how she doesn’t give a fuck about him whereas he cares for her a lot
Are these red flags or I’m just thinking too much because he says that he loves me the most and everything.