u/WoodpeckerSerious663

22F4M Finding agnostic/atheist life partner..

Hi everyone :)

I’m a 22F from Pakistan looking to connect with someone kind, emotionally mature, and understanding for a genuine long-term relationship/partnership.

A little about me:

• I’m a 3D artist and a very creative person

• I love art, deep conversations about existence and life, nature, going out, and creating things

• Personality-wise, I’d describe myself as calm, funny, friendly, and an ambivert

• I value honesty, emotional intelligence, kindness, communication, and mutual respect very deeply

I also want to be honest about something important: I’m asexual, so I’d want a partner who genuinely understands and respects that, including my personal boundaries and comfort levels. Emotional connection and feeling safe with someone matter much more to me than traditional relationship expectations.

I’m looking for someone caring, open-minded, respectful, emotionally supportive, and mature enough to communicate properly rather than judge or control.

Deal breakers for me:

• Religious/extremely conservative mindset

• Wanting children

• Anger issues/aggressive behavior

• Controlling or misogynistic behavior

• Expectation of living in a joint family setup

Not looking to rush into anything — I’d rather build trust, friendship, and understanding naturally first.

Feel free to DM me if you think we might connect well :)

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u/WoodpeckerSerious663 — 9 days ago

22F4M Finding agnostic/atheist life partner..

Hi everyone. I never thought I’d make a post like this, but here we are.

I’m an ex-Muslim woman from Pakistan looking for a potential lavender marriage/companionship arrangement with someone who understands the realities of living in a conservative society.

For me, this is less about pretending and more about creating a safe, respectful, and mutually beneficial life with someone who understands what it’s like to live under social and family pressure. I value honesty, emotional maturity, privacy, kindness, and mutual understanding above traditional expectations.

About me:•

age: 22F•

country: Pakistan•

passion: 3d artist•

interests: art, creative thinking, deep talks about existence, going out, being connected to nature and creative creation• personality: calm and also funny, ambivert but friendly,

What I’m looking for:• preferably ex-Muslim/agnostic/atheist• emotionally mature and respectful• someone who values friendship and partnership• no controlling behavior or misogyny• ideally someone who also wants independence and peace rather than a traditional dynamic

Deal breakers for me:

• Religious/extremely conservative mindset

• Wanting children

• Anger issues/aggressive behavior

• Controlling or misogynistic behavior

• Expectation of living in a joint family setup

I’m open to discussing boundaries, expectations, future plans, living arrangements, etc privately if we connect.

Please be respectful. I know this type of arrangement isn’t for everyone, but for some of us it can genuinely be a safer and healthier option.

Feel free to DM if you think we might be compatible.

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u/WoodpeckerSerious663 — 9 days ago