Seems like women want serious on here more than men. Is there non lustful men in here who would actually like serious relations whether it’s friends or relationships irl or even online? 🤔 and how comes people don’t post themselves with the introductions?
Short, black, chubby/curvy alternative woman looking for a genuine connection and maybe something serious. Who knows.
Politically left. I like kdrama, anime, reality tv, crafting, painting and karaoke. I also really enjoy video game lore and analysis, and going to concerts. Sarcasm, banter and having a good time are my unofficial love languages. I'm also learning Korean, so if you know any it'd be cool to have someone to practice with! My friends are super important to me, so if nothing else, I'd totally be down for more friends.
I'm into slow burn, but whatever happens happens. Museum, the aquarium, brewery or library dates. I love trying new restaurants (I have a whole list of ones I wanna try). Snuggling and watching scary movies, doing fun fall crafts, and wine.
You: 25-48 years old. Politically left and nerdy. Taller than me and live in Maryland/Baltimore/DMV area. Open to certain parts of Pennsylvania. Bonus points if you know computers/keyboards and how to build them.
If you're interested, message me your favorite horror game or movie and let's get to know each other~
Not looking for hookups, fwb, anyone partnered or people with children
I’m taking a slightly unconventional approach to meeting someone because dating apps have started to feel like the same conversations on repeat. Maybe Reddit will surprise me.
I’m 36, single, no kids, and live in New Jersey. I have a career I genuinely care about, my own place, and a life I’m continuing to build — but I’d really like to meet someone I’m excited to share it with.
I’m open to meeting someone from anywhere. Of course, being within reasonable distance makes dating easier, but I wouldn’t rule out a genuinely great connection because of geography. If you’re farther away, I’d just want you to be serious about eventually meeting in person and exploring whether we could build something in the real world. I’m looking for a relationship, not a permanently long-distance pen pal.
Personality-wise, I’m an introvert with a curious mind. I love learning and I’m drawn to people who are the same way. I’m currently learning Korean, love traveling (and have more international travel on my list), and I can easily get pulled into a good conversation about culture, psychology, careers, faith, why people are the way they are, or some completely random thing one of us discovered at 1 a.m. 😂
I’m especially attracted to intelligent men — not necessarily “look at my degrees” intelligent, but curious intelligent. Someone who has interests, can teach me things, asks good questions, has opinions he can actually explain, and enjoys learning from the person he’s with too. Emotional intelligence counts for a lot as well.
I’m Christian, and my faith is important to me, so ultimately I’m looking for someone who shares that foundation. I want a relationship that has the potential to become something lasting — marriage, family, partnership — but I’m not trying to manufacture instant intimacy with a stranger. I’d rather meet someone, talk, laugh, see if there’s attraction and compatibility, and let something real develop naturally.
Physically, I’m a tall (5’11”), curvy Black woman. I take care of myself and I’m working toward some fitness goals, but I’m definitely not petite. I tend to be most attracted to Asian men, particularly East Asian men, but chemistry is chemistry. I’m happy to exchange pictures privately if we click — mutual attraction matters to me, and I assume it matters to you too.
As for you: ideally you’re somewhere around my age, single, emotionally available, financially responsible, intellectually curious, and actually interested in building a relationship. Bonus points if you’re active, love traveling, can make me laugh, or have some niche interest you could enthusiastically talk my ear off about.
Location isn’t a dealbreaker for me. Effort is. If we’re a few states — or even a country — apart and there’s a genuine connection, I’m open to seeing where it goes. But I’d want us both to be willing and able to turn that connection into actual dates eventually.
I’m not looking for hookups, sexting, a married man looking for excitement, or a pen pal who disappears after three days.
If any of this sounds like you, send me a message and tell me something about yourself. Not just “hey.” Tell me what you do, what you’re passionate about, something you’ve been learning lately, or even where you’d go tomorrow if someone handed you a free plane ticket.
Hello everyone.
I'm a 26-year-old Chinese man looking for a genuine, long-term relationship that can lead to marriage.
I work in the food industry in China and plan to continue building my future here. Because of my work and family, I'm looking for someone who is willing to move to China after marriage so we can build our life together.
I'm honest, loyal, family-oriented, and I value trust, respect, and good communication. I don't smoke, and I prefer a simple and healthy lifestyle.
I'm not looking for games, casual dating, or financial support. I hope to meet someone who is kind, sincere, and ready for a serious commitment.
If you believe that love is built on honesty, loyalty, and mutual respect, I'd love to get to know you.
Feel free to send me a message.