In my personal opinion I think it'd be putting in crazy amounts of effort to look effortless and following fashion trends. Every male has the same messy hair these days, not one that looks good but it clearly takes time to maintain. Everybody is going way out of their way to find casual clothing like pastel colored jeans
Sooo I am on my way to uni (I am a day scholar) and I have a long journey rn. Sooo tell me smth. It can be about yourself or smth you learned today or practical anything I can read and we'll pass my time.
No brainrots pls.
Thanks
basically the title. when i hear people talk about their emotions, all the things they describe feeling are just… physically impossible? like how is it possible for a muscle to feel like that? its lead me to theorize some people have non-physical feelings tied to their emotions, which is a concept i just cannot grasp. does anyone experience that, and if so can you describe it so i can better understand it?
I’m 18, male, and I’m wondering if anyone feels the same. I feel like there’s actually kind of a lot of risk about being alone with a girl. the way false allegations can absolutely ruin some mens lives is no joke, and the fact that a lot of those can come from not only the girl your alone with, but their friends is scary. and even if people defend you against a false allegation, people will still treat you differently. a lie can travel halfway across the world where truth is still putting on its shoes.
what do you guys think?
So, at first we were just friends we were normal friends, but then he started developing feelings for me, and I didn’t know about it. After that he suddenly disappeared out of nowhere for a month or 2 when he came back, he eventually confessed that he had feelings for me and that it had been hurting him because from my side it was just friendship while from his side, he had developed romantic feelings for me
Since the beginning he has always said that his type is someone like me especially personality wise. Basically, Im exactly his type but he never directly said that I was his type because at that time we were just friends ...he would indirectly compliment me and say things that made it obvious that someone with my personality was exactly what he liked
Now I’ve started developing feelings for him too and his type still seems to be the same. There are girls who keep hitting on him and trying to get him to block me or something. Obviously, they seem to have a problem with me because I’m really close to him. But he always says that he would block them and that he would never, ever block me. He says he doesn’t want anything to do with them and that he’s happy to have me in his life.
At the same time he has a lot of insecurities and low self worth. He often feels like he doesn’t deserve me not even as a friend. He says that I deserve someone much better than him and that I should find someone who truly deserves me
Earlier we were doing this fun how would you propose to your future partner? kind of thing And when it came to the confession part, he used almost exactly the same wording that he uses when he talks to me
So now I’m really confused...Does he still like me? Does he still have feelings for me or has he moved on and lost those feelings? Because some of the things he says to me are the exact same things he said when he originally confessed his feelings
Sometimes his insecurities and low selfworth get really bad, and he tells me that I should leave him find someone better than him, find someone I deserve or even find a new friend. I feel like he may have some childhood trauma or something that contributes to these insecurities, but I obviously don’t know for sure
I really don’t want to ruin our friendship....But I’ve started developing feelings for him, and now I’m wondering what I should actually do Does it sound like he still has feelings for me, or am I reading too much into everything?