r/ButchFashionAdvice

All of my pants have a rise that doesn’t even cover my jungle fully and I’m dead serious about that. Obviously as a butch I hate wearing feminine underwear like bikini cut or whatever but sometimes it’s my only option for my underwear to not sit 6 inches above the waistband of my pants. I won’t be buying higher rise pants, I only wear ultra low rise cause it hides my hips and I love how it looks. But please let me know if there’s anywhere yall have found to purchase anything like this, unfortunately most modern “low rise” boxers (Amazon, target, etc) are not cutting it either cause I’m wearing pants from the 2000s that are truly egregiously low. If yall know any brands (vintage or not, I’m desperate) that sell ridiculously low rise boxers please help and thank you

Hi everyone. I'm AFAB, and for most of my life I've been for the most part fem-presenting. I had a really hyper-fem phase through pretty much all of my teenage years. For a little while every year or I would start dressing a bit more masc and then drop it mainly because of negative commentary on it(from my mother only tbh). But I've realized presenting as hyperfeminine as I have, like full beat, girly clothes the whole wasn't making me happy, and a lot of it was for validation now looking back. In those times I would dress masc; I would feel more comfortable with myself versus ig a "costume" of an attractive woman.

I've already been incorporating some more masc silhouettes in my wardrobe for the past couple months, but I'm feeling a bit stuck so I'm looking to explore my presentation more and find clothes that help create a more masculine silhouette. I have pants with a more masc cut so I'm looking for tops. I'm wondering if anyone has any recs for any boxy button-downs. henleys and sweaters that are tighter in the shoulders and arms. I'm 5'5 with a slim athletic build and shoulders slightly wider than my hips. I have a pretty small bust, which is pretty much reduced w a sports bra but I can't bind fully since I still live w my parents and they would notice. I have an opportunity to travel next summer w my uni and there I could present fully masc and tape or bind and I'm also thinking of investing in summer pieces for then. Thank you for reading!

Hi friends!

I have recently been invited on a friend’s bachelor party trip that will take place over Labor Day weekend. One of the nights is a dinner at a nice restaurant transitioning into a night out at the local gay bars.

The dress theme is just to wear all black and I already know what I’m going to wear HOWEVER (!) I have a medical device that I must carry with me. It’s about the size of a iPhone but about 1.5-2” thick.

Right now I carry it around in a baggu crossbody that works for general occasions but I’d ideally like something nicer for this event.

Any advice on what sort of bag I should carry? I don’t want the nylon to detract from the level of dress. Anything I would need to order online would need to have a shipping time that would get it to me before 9/3. Links would be much appreciated!!