r/Calvinism

I’m of the reformed belief. But the reformed preachers just say different things. Washer says the only people who can’t be saved are those who reject Christ. Then in another video says you’re going to hell if you play video games or have anything to do with the world. No I don’t play video games. Then you have Piper talking with Rick Warren saying if you are saved but do certain sins you are going to hell. They make no sense with one another. How can these men who supposedly believe the same thing. Be so different and preach so different?? I don’t get it. One says one thing one day then another another day the piper talks about election and then how if you do this you’ll go t hell. It makes no sense sense. Yes I’m reformed but thes guys just confuse me

I am not trying to beat a dead horse. I’m just trying to find a way clear to not waking up every day wondering if I’m saved. If I’m called. If I eliminated because of some sin. This video seems to answer the question. Will a couple of you watch it and give me your feedback? I realize you don’t know me or owe me anything! I’m just asking in hope. I love Paul Washer. This video makes God seem so welcoming. But then so many “calvanist “ videos makes God seem so reluctant. So against almost everyone except a tiny few. Some Paul washer videos kinda present God that way

Is it ok to rejoice in guilt?

When I feel guilt for my sin a tiny bit of me feels joy that I have guilt to feel for the sin, it’s almost like a peace. Is that normal or ok?