r/GayIndianDating

Looking for something genuine

Hey

I'm 21, enjoy good conversations, bad jokes, and getting to know people beyond small talk. I'm here hoping to find a genuine relationship rather than something casual.

If you decide to message me, please be someone who can actually hold a conversation. Effort goes a long way. :)

(Versbtm if that matters )

I'm from Delhi ncr area

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u/FruityParadox — 2 days ago
▲ 52 r/GayIndianDating+2 crossposts

My struggles as a closeted gay teen in Kerala

Heyy everyone. I am new here. It's been some days I joined here but still confused about how it works. I just want to connect with more people. I am closeted gay guy from kerala. I am 17 years old. I am a humanities student. I hope I could go to real dates soon after +2. I don't know. I am tired of hiding myself from everything. Any fellow gay people here?

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u/happyyvee — 5 days ago

Verse

38 year old businessman from Mumbai seeking to explore my bi curious verse side.

Seeking a good looking top in mumbai (not chubby) with a bit of experience of course, I cannot host at my place coz I am married and discreetly wanting to do this of course. Will surely book a place though. Awaiting a connect soon.

TIA!

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u/diablo_devil779 — 5 days ago

20 | Femboy from Dehradun,Uttarakhand looking for a genuine Top/Verse guy for a long-term FWB connection ✨ | Read full post

Name: Aki

Age: 20

Gender: Femboy

Sexuality: Bisexual

Location: Dehradun, Uttarakhand

Role: Switch (leaning submissive)

About Me

Hey! I'm a 20-year-old pahadi femboy/sissy from Dehradun looking for a genuine connection with a Top or Verse guy. I'm naturally more submissive, but since I'm a switch, I'm also open to taking control if the chemistry and vibe are right.

What I'm Into

Giving blowjobs

Passionate makeouts

Mutual handjobs

Being dominated

Feet/playful foot stuff

Spanking

CNC dynamics (with proper communication and boundaries)

Exploring and trying new things with the right person

Hard Limits ❌

Scat

What I'm Looking For

I'm looking for a discreet, sincere, and understanding Top or Verse guy for a genuine FWB connection. Ideally, I'd love to find someone I can have good chemistry with and make it a recurring, long-term arrangement rather than just a one-time thing.

I'm bi and still technically a virgin when it comes to penetration, but I do have experience with making out and oral, and I'm open to exploring more with someone I trust and feel comfortable with.

I don't really have a strict type—if there's mutual attraction, respect, and good communication, that's what matters most to me.

Also Open To

Male couples looking for a third

Group fun if there's mutual interest and comfort

Switching roles depending on chemistry and comfort

If we genuinely click, I'd also be open to seeing if it develops into something more meaningful over time.

Meeting / Hosting

I do have a personal room and can potentially host, but only if we've built trust and are both interested in something ongoing. Otherwise, I'm also happy to visit if that's more comfortable.

Important

Discretion is very important to me. Whatever happens stays between us. Looking for mutual respect, good vibes, and someone who's genuinely interested.

If you'd like to know more about me or think we'd get along, feel free to DM me here or message me on Telegram/Discord: @dazyaki

"Not looking for endless chatting—looking for chemistry, connection, and someone who actually wants to meet and build something fun together."

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u/Real-Builder-8348 — 7 days ago
▲ 6 r/GayIndianDating+1 crossposts

new and confused

hey everyone I'm 21 M , ever since I was a kid I had an inner feeling to be feminine like whenever I'm alone used to wear my sister clothes things like that, but never told to anyone. now iam getting feelings towards men , eventhough I'm a virgin i imagine myself as being bottom with a guy. as I'm new to these feelings, anyone can please explain what's happening like a friend.

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u/bruce__infinity — 10 days ago

26 M side guy looking for good looking and decent guys

Hi there. I am 26 M side(not into anal) guy. I have recently shifted to Kharghar, Navi Mumbai. I am looking for good looking and decent guys to be friends with and have fun if vibe is good. Into well spoken guys with decent personality. I like cafe hopping, reading and have good conversations. I’m more of an introvert but can open up well if we connect. Also, not into fems/chubs/subs no offence. Putting my face pic in the comments.

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u/Arun-Dirty-Roy — 8 days ago

32M, Never Dated till now, Something wrong with me!?

I am 32 male, gay guy.
I realised about my sexual orientation in my teens and have been on this journey since then.

But i look around and meet people who are happily dating or trying to date. And i haven’t dated anyone in my whole life. I think i am spiralling just thinking about this. Any suggestions?

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u/Strict-Lack-353 — 10 days ago

Looking for a date!🌎

I'm 19M here!! Wese to life bahat achchi chal rhi hai but chahta hu ki koi sath ho ise mehsoos karne ke liye, kyuki

kisi ke sath mulaqat hogii, late night baat hogi,

dheere dheere insaan sachcha lagta hai

Aur hume Kisi ke yaadon main rehna achcha lagta hai

If u r more into physical appearance and very fast attachment (which may lead to break down) then we are not same ig!!

Text me to know and connect moree if I made you think once about it!💟

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u/an_artistixguy — 9 days ago
▲ 10 r/GayIndianDating+1 crossposts

Dated a Bi-curious guy

Met a guy frm reddit through a gaming sub from playing games to chatting we exchanged our insta ids (obviously fake ones) thn chatting converted to hours of phone call, he showed genuine efforts, told his feelings abt me, showed me impossible future with him, and thn after 1 month he decided to leave me bcs his family condition isn't good as other and he was some kinda of in delulu that bcs of him my future will be effected and blocked me frm every platform..

Now I'm devastated, broken, and the first time ever in my life I feel the real love, real connection.. dated many guys in real bt nobody feels like him😊

(We exchanged our numbers and photos as well)

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u/Opencriticized — 11 days ago

21 m gay guy here from noida

A vers bottom from noida looking for a relationship and fwb first let's talk where it heads , more into hygiene and yes pls be decent enough and + plus point i am a virgin

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u/lavdasur0 — 11 days ago

32 | M | Bombay - looking to date

Looking to find someone in this city to bond, explore and date. Not into only hooking up anymore. I want to slow down, connect and enjoy the one person I'm with.

If interested, send me a DM and let's chat. I'm mostly into straight acting men, nothing against anyone who isn't like that, just isn't my preference!

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u/Dramatic_Wear_9592 — 12 days ago