r/GayIndianDating

Looking for the fated one......

So hello everyone, I'm a 19 year old guy looking for my guy.

Anybody who is able to hold a Convo and won't ghost can dm, I'm super into ltr so until you give me a reason I won't leave.

I don't live in some metro city or something, I live in Andhra Pradesh....... So I'm up for ldr also if vibes match nd you are willing to be my guy

Looks wise any guy who's pleasing to my eyes works bcz I am planning to wake up beside him for the rest of my life so yeah.......

Please have a good personality, I meant character wise and if possible be an extrovert too cuz I do end up having nothing to say mid Convo also I'm a great listener......

Also for compatiblity wise I'm a 🔝 nd age isn't much of a barrier until there's too much of a gap........

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u/RoundAny3551 — 1 day ago

Looking for someone

Not really looking to force anything or put a label on it from day one. Just hoping to meet someone with whom conversations feel effortless, the vibe feels natural, and spending time together doesn’t feel like an obligation.

Someone who can be a little goofy, a little mature when needed, enjoys random conversations, spontaneous plans, good food, movies, late-night talks, and isn’t afraid to be themselves.

Ideally, someone in or around Hyderabad would be great, but I’m open to seeing where a good connection leads.

No expectations, no pressure — just two people getting to know each other and seeing if there’s something worth building. :)

If this sounds like your kind of thing, feel free to DM. Let’s start with a conversation and take it from there.

I am 22, TOP BOTTOM VERS BDSM LOVER many more

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u/Vast-Pay4310 — 1 day ago

Any Parsi Gay Top Here ??

Hi Everyone!

I am 22 M from Matunga, Mumbai.

I am from a pure Maharashtrian household but throughout my life I have admired the Parsi community whose influence is so evident in Matunga and the nearby Parsi Colony. Recently I watched Dorabjee & Son's Heir and while I sincerely do not wish to find someone that rich or handsome, is there any

1.Parsi Top

2.Around 24-26

3.Above 5" 11'

4.Living in Matunga/Dadar?

If yes, please DM!

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u/The_SonofPoseidon — 3 days ago

22M diagnosised with HIV from Hyderabad.

Hey there, I genuinely would love to have a boyfriend, someone i can call mine, someone who i can feel free with and just love and feel loved.

Life has been too overwhelming to say the least and i just want some company and some love man.

I do like to take things slow, I am just lonely af at the moment, I feel like I have no optimism or hope left.

Every time I talk to someone, they give me hope and just leave.

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u/Beneficial-Feed-8378 — 3 days ago

19M gay top looking for a boyfriend

this is my first time posting here sooo I'm a 19-year-old gay top, and yeah im also looking for a beautiful relationship with a cute guy and heres a bit about me: I'm 6ft and pretty athletic too, hehe. Well if you want, then we could also become friends with benefits too lol and could have some flirty talks too

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u/AdjacentWooden881 — 4 days ago

Relationship advice

Is it okay for my boyfriend to completely hide me from his straight friends?

I’m 23M and my boyfriend is 28. We’ve been together for around 1.5 years, and for the most part, we’re happy together.

He is educated, caring, and genuinely nice to me. He spends money on me sometimes even when I don’t ask for it — cafe hopping, chocolates, even two T-shirts from Westside lol. I’m earning myself, so I don’t really need him to spend on me, but he says he does these things out of love. I’m genuinely grateful because no one has really done these things for me before. I’m mentioning this because I don’t want it to sound like I’m with him for money or “digging for gold.”

But there is one thing that has been bothering me for a long time: he completely hides me from his straight friends.

I’m not asking him to introduce me as his boyfriend or make some big announcement. I completely understand that coming out is complicated, and I’m not a kid. I live alone in Delhi, I’m originally from UP, I work as a software engineer, and I’m capable of understanding social situations and consequences.

But I want to meet his friends normally. Bas ek normal insaan ki tarah.

I’m also not someone who is uncomfortable socially. I’m an extrovert, I’m confident about myself, and I don’t think there is anything about me that would make meeting his friends some huge issue.

About a year ago, he met me in CP. Later, he told me he was going to a restaurant with one of his friends and basically said, “Tum ab jaao.”

That really hurt me. I remember thinking, Kya main us restaurant mein jaane layak nahi hoon? Kya problem hai?

He later explained that he wanted to keep his friends and me “isolated” from each other. I somehow swallowed that explanation because I love him and I understand that everyone has different boundaries.

But now it’s been 1.5 years.

Recently, it was his birthday. Instead of spending his birthday with me, he went out with the same friends the night before, from around 8 PM until 1 AM. Then he told me, “Maine unke saath formality kar li hai, ab pura din tumhare saath hoon.”

And somehow I’m supposed to feel happy about that?

Last year on his birthday, he spent the evening with his family and then went out with the same friends. When I found out, he said, “Tumne poocha hi nahi. Mujhe nahi pata tum itni late aa paate ya nahi.”

Those friends are important enough for him to travel with them too. He went to South Korea for three months because of work and spent time with them, and he also went to Europe with them for 15 days.

Meanwhile, I was sitting here missing him, crying, completely ruining my sleep schedule just so I could talk to him.

I know crying “as a man” sounds stupid, but I’m 23, this is my first serious relationship with another man, and sometimes I genuinely don't know how to handle these emotions.

There have been other incidents too.

On our relationship anniversary, I got ready and waited around four hours at Cyber Hub. He arrived four hours late because of traffic. I didn’t even make a big issue out of it. We just met, didn’t really go anywhere to eat, and then went back.

Things like this have happened multiple times.

And every time, he calls me baby, explains things, tries to make me understand his side, and eventually I swallow it because I love him.

I also genuinely need him in my life — not financially. He has helped me understand a lot of things, especially regarding jobs and corporate life, and sometimes I look up to him as an older person who listens to me and guides me. There are things I can share with him that I can't easily share with anyone else.

That’s why leaving isn't as simple as people might think.

But I feel like I’m slowly losing myself in this relationship.

This birthday situation affected me badly. When I found out that he had already gone to celebrate with his friends the night before, I literally didn’t sleep the entire night. I cried, took a paid leave from work, and spent the next day lying in my PG room.

Maybe this sounds dramatic to some people, but this is genuinely how deeply it affected me.

I don't want him to choose between me and his friends.

I don't want to control who he spends time with.

I don't even necessarily need him to tell his friends that I’m his boyfriend.

I just want to exist in his social life.

I don't want to be someone he has to hide every single time his straight friends are around.

He keeps telling me that he wants to keep these two parts of his life separate, and I've tried to understand that for a long time. But at some point, I have to ask myself: how long am I supposed to keep swallowing this?

He clearly doesn't want to leave me. I don't want to leave him either.

But his behaviour is becoming harder and harder for me to accept.

So I genuinely want an outside perspective:

Is it actually reasonable for him to keep me completely separate from his straight friends even after 1.5 years?

Am I expecting too much by wanting to meet them normally?

Or is this something I should accept as his boundary, even if it hurts me this much?

I’m genuinely confused because I love him, but I also feel like I’m slowly disappearing inside this relationship.

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u/Ok_Air8199 — 4 days ago
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22M Top,for relationship

Hi guys, Idk why do I have these ideas at midnight only. I am zoe,22M(TOP) from bangalore.anybody interested in relationship.about myself, I am 6feet tall,Brown skin,athletic not muscular,doing Internship Not that good looking but okayish type. If anybody interested Dm me.just don't be that chubby.

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u/grey1019 — 4 days ago
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GC for queers?

Hey guys ^⁠_⁠^

I am 21 years old and I am gay ✨

So I was thinking of creating an Instagram GC for queer folks. Anyone can join it, just the age range would be 19 years till 27 years.

I am mostly trying to get the crowd residing in Mumbai :)

This gc would be mostly for friendship purposes 🙏🏼

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u/roundpotato_1 — 6 days ago

Any really passionate bottoms? Into passionate love making and kinks? Dm me no desperate guys please. Lets spend some quality time. ONLY TEXT IF YOU LIKE BIG CHUB TOPS IM 6’3 127kg.

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u/Some_Astronaut_9061 — 5 days ago

26 M side guy in Navi Mumbai looking for good looking guys.

Hi there. I am a 26 year old side guy staying in Navi Mumbai with my fam. I’m looking for good looking guys who are sides or okay with just side fun. Different city is fine as long as we maintain the chemistry. Would prefer educated and well spoken guys. I’m a slim guy. Posting my pic in the comments so if you are keen, hit me up!. Also not into fems/chubs/subs no offence.

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u/Arun-Dirty-Roy — 4 days ago

[22M] any Sugar daddies around to spoil me? (Virtual/in-person)

Heyy.. so 22M here, im slim, dusky young bottom looking for some sugar daddies to spoil me and have fun with. Got a Slim waist with a wide ass... not a virgin but definitely my hole is tight enough to make me moan with even a thick finger. Into serving daddies and really good at sucking (trust me - everyone i've sucked so far has complemented my bj skills haha). Love giving deep bjs, especially sloppy blowjobs and deepthroats.

Into bodyplay and some kinky stuff too. I'm discreet so privacy is guaranteed from my end.

Into all ages and types... young, old, fit, chubs, slim, dark, fair, single, married... i'm fine with all .. hmu to explore more daddies

Make me your bitch. Your sugar baby is waiting 🤭

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u/ShakshukaTheFirst — 6 days ago

Hi 22m here just looking for my other half

Hi I'm 22 from bengal

I like watching movies and series, reading, drawing, writing, walking, anime, nature.

I want someone who loves like the old times, old fashioned myself, like in the movies.

Romantic movies are my favourite as well as horror, both are horror if romance has a sad ending.

Distance doesn't matter but the connection and efforts does

there are so many mediocre things in our lives love shouldn't be one of them

so looking for some yearning passionate love for the rest of my life

I'm hopeless romantic

I'm looking for deep conversations, emotional connection, emotional intelligence, great understanding, a nice romantic one. to be with as long as we live, I'm not picky in to looks but might be picky into personality, outer beauty will fade with age not inner. so probably would like someone who respects, make each other priorities

Not into guys younger than me , I like manly men , hairy

if anything interests you hmu, hope you are having a great day

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u/Boring_Following_466 — 8 days ago

Looking for a proper slave near naraina vihar,South West Delhi (1 room in 3 bhk is also available ping if u r gay and want to move in ). Who wants to be own completely.

Looking for a long-term slave dynamic.

I'm not looking for someone who's only interested in sex or just being a bottom. I'm looking for a genuine slave mindset—someone who wants to build trust, consistency, and a stable long-term dynamic based on mutual understanding, communication, and commitment.

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u/No-Apple8506 — 8 days ago