r/LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

Okay I'm late to the party but where is Subodh? I was so invested in his relationship and was happy he and his date became official!

I want to see their relationship flourish and their travels like Abbey's! Also Subodh's family was so authentic, involved and kind compared to some cast's family who are doing it for show ! I can't forget his father (who didn't talk much) cry when Subodh announced his relationship to the family!

Production didn't even update us on him like he was never a cast! Or am I missing something?

Edit: Thank you all for the update! What a sad turn of events :/ I was hopping he continued dating the girl he was with in season 1.

In the last vlog, they came up with the idea to go to the library, and now they are doing it!

On the show it shows that Hailey has 2 dogs when Logan comes over, what kind of dogs are they?

They communicate like small children, and adults speak to them a little bit like children as well. Very different to how James and Connor or Madison are, where they have a lot of OCD tendencies, and even hobbies that are childlike, and anxious attachments, but they are definitely adults.

So Abbey and David's condition, is that a crossover with something else, or still autism? They seem mentally slower, I don't know how to explain it cause on the other hand, they do have a great memory. But in terms of understanding I'm not sure they understand things. I also don't know if they are aware of it. Just curious of the nuances

EDIT: To be clear I don't want to pry into anyone's lives and I'm not asking to diagnose them or expose their conditions, I just used them as an example. I was curious about what autism means

i’m introducing my sister to the show and want to show her my favorite things, i can find plenty of “interesting” clips, but i haven’t seen an “ouchie”. i looked on Reddit, tiktok, youtube, and just Googled it. maybe i’m bad at finding things or just blind, but help would be appreciated
(i’ll also be watching the show until i find one so i’ll let y’all know if i do!)

He's so funny. I could binge watch episodes just following his life. I think his family is great too!

I started watching the 2nd season of LOTS and maybe I'm reading too much into it, but I'm on episode 3 and when they introduced Tanner, I thought it was a little odd that he immediately started asking if his eyebrows were right. Then a little later he asked if he was smiling okay.

I'm not on the spectrum, but I learned in 4th or 5th grade, maybe I shouldn't be so blunt with people, because it could be rude or weird around certain people. And I didn't learn until much later that that is called masking.

When Tanner's mom first appeared on screen, she really set me off. She seems like the type of person to only be in her child's life because he's on TV now. Her personal interview also sent my antennas going. She sounded like she tried to "cure" the autism from him for far too long.

This part will sound REALLY out there, but when Tanner saw her come in, it seemed like his positive personality jumped up a few levels just to please her.

But again. I'm probably reading too much into it

Did anyone else feel that way?

So I was just casually going to the pool today at my country club, and what do I see but Connor canoodling with a mystery blonde!

I have seen Connor before at my local Kroger, as he works there (or at least used to….not sure if he still does).

When I first got there, Connor & this woman were canoodling in the pool and then quickly got out once we arrived. Nobody else was at the pool.

They then sat on a chair cuddling under a beach towel and were staring at us. I didn’t realize it was him at first until I heard his distinctive voice.

For at least 30 mins they were laying on a lounge chart together, and he was all over her. He talked non-stop….she couldn’t get a word in.

They def were very cozy and he seemed into her.

She was a very petite blonde….probably in her early 20’s. Very interesting considering he was against dating blondes.

Was an unexpected sighting….thought I’d share. 👀

I did not take any pics or vids bc it would have been very obvious.

Edit after comments: I’m a gossip monger. What can I say. It’s not that serious, ya’ll.

I was really, really touched by Madison, and I admired her so much. I would have loved to have her as my best friend. But the person who touched me the most was Tanner. I imagine this is the case for many people here, and that I’m just going to repeat what a lot of people have already said, but please excuse me—I need to talk to someone about this.

As someone who tends to be depressed and with anxiety disorder, just seeing Tanner and listening to him talk brought me a deep sense of calm. I loved seeing him, and he made me laugh a lot. I’m incredibly afraid of being judged by others, but with him I wouldn’t have felt judged—I would have felt confident and safe. I could have been completely myself. He's such a pure person.

I know I’ll never meet him in my life because I live in France, and anyway, I think I would have been too afraid to bother him if I’d been able to meet him in the US. Even though he’s no longer on Love on the Spectrum, I hope to see him again on another show. I also hope he’s doing well and that he’s surrounded by people with whom he can be completely himself without anyone taking advantage of him.

Speak negatively of her when she was sitting right there! You could see her spirits drop. Mom said how she thought none of this would ever be possible, from living independently to dating. You can think that, and worry about that, as a parent, but to say it out loud in front of them is crappy.