r/MiscarriageHelp

 TW (trigger warning ⚠️) I recently had 21 weeks MC, its been 5 weeks i am still experiencing brown/pink VD since 27 days, they are asking me if you want to see a gynae go to ER but my vitals are normal, if someone could guide, is it normal ? I went to ER on 9 june from the VG swab the doctor took she told me after a week i have a womb/uterus infection of high grade Ecoli., prescribed me antibiotics, i completed the course of antiobiotics, still i am having brown/pink vaginal discharge its been 5 weeks is it normal? If i am asking them like is it normal or not they are saying me to go to ER if i want to see a gynae. are there no follow-up appiontments for ladies who have late MC, whats the process , i went to GP as well , they told me only gynae can analyze and go to maternity. Maternity is saying go to ER , ER is saying come to us only when your vitals are not normal .Can someone guide what to do

I’m 5 weeks and 5 days , they saw a G sac but said it could be to early on to notice anything more. I understand the risks I’m having mild cramping . It’s my second pregnancy I had 0 problems with my first (and I was not in a healthy place at all, making very bad choices) unlike now where I’m in a better place than I ever been. The blood varies from pink, to red, I haven’t noticed any tissue or anything …. What I’m needing to know is, if it’s a miscarriage will I KNOW? like will the clot be noticeable will their be significant pain, or is it relatively possible that this baby is going to be okay? My hormone levels where in the 2000s when I went to the emergency room, and my sac is measuring at 5 weeks , I’m waiting to see if they went up any with the bloodwork I did today… like when they say clots it’ll be a noticeable clot??? Like it wouldn’t absorb into a pad. Idk I’m freaking out I hate this limbo stage . My heart hurts .