r/NeedToTalk

I have always been the one that gives a shoulder when someone needs it, I help where I can, but the past few days, I have been feeling like I need to cry to someone. My partner's grandmother is dying. I want to be there for them, kinda comes with the territory when you become partners, but all Im getting right now is feelings of wanting someone to comfort me, as I'm getting flashbacks to my Dad dying. I want to ask my partner for comfort, but they're the one whose grandparent is passing away. I should be strong but all I want is a hug. Am I being selfish?

I feel so left behind in life. I never got to experience true romance. Never been picked as pick me as that sounds. Never had a bf. Never had a mutual crush. Guys have been so mean to me in the past. I’ve become wildly insecure now because of it. I just have no will anymore and it’s made me depressed… I can’t imagine myself ever meeting anyone or someone actually liking me back. Or loving me… all I ever wanted was a family. I fear it’s too late for me.

Hey i (23,m) was wondering if there is someone i can vent to for a bit on this place. I have a lot on my mind and i find it very difficult to talk about these things with the people in my life. I would just like to be able to talk about these things, without being afraid of being a burden to the people that like me. So yeah, if anyones down to be a listening ear for a lil bit, id love to hear it. And ofcourse, if there is anything u need to get off your chest, its no problem either, its always nice to know you’re not alone.

Just need some good quality time together!!

I’m feeling very sad and I don’t have many people to talk to in my life if anyone wants to talk and help each other that would be nice thank you

need someone to talk to, im F20 from the philippines and im just kinda having troubles with my course (overthinking if this is the right choice) so i need someone to talk to about this 😓 or lets just talk about anything, im having a bad day today so i just want to vent this out to someone

Happy Tuesday everyone

I’m just putting myself out there as someone who will listen to you and just be up for good banter if you’re up for it x looking forward to hearing from you all ^.^

Hi friends, im looking to expand my social skills and communicate more. I struggle with conversations and am trying to get better at it so why not talk to people here?

Im a alt 26NB, love coffee, cats, music, gym, and crafting! Currently working on a patchwork sweater!

If youre down, please state your age and a little about you in a dm! Thanks!

Hi I need some advice of how to disappear without going into a mental hospital or something like that

I’m turning 18 yo this year, in august actually, lot of my friends already turned 18, they did big parties…that kind of stuff yk, i do have friends but no close friends, like no real group of friends or even a best friend and idk..I feel like i’m gonna waste my 18 birthday, we only turn 18 once in a life isn’t it? Even my bf invited friends from across the country, he had all his family, had a big party but like i only talk to my parents, most our family don’t talk to us because of my mother and my closest sister (one of the person i love the most) don’t talk to my parents anymore…So i guess i’m gonna turn 18 with no cake, my dog, my boyfriend and my duck and gooses. My bf’s mom asked if my parents planned a party for my birth cause it’s logical for her to do that for their kid then i told her my parents never wanted to do anything for my birthday, not even when i was a kid, but my brother always had birthday parties haha… I have no one to invite anyway and it’ll be awkward to do it with my bf’s whole family, i only know them for 1 year, i always hated my birthday anyway.

Feeling super depressed I feel like the light has completely disappeared inside me . Can anyone chat?

Looking to talk about general life things. How was your day? What are you doing today? Easy day, rough day? Vent? Grateful? Happy? Sad?

So I make around 26 an hour witch is very good for my area the only down side is that its 4 on 4 off swing shift with 2 sets of days and 2 sets of nights and there all 12 hour shifts my commute is an hour and a half one way its manual labor in a refinery dont wanna say to much but its 20 degrees hotter then out side so if its 80 its 100 inside not to mention all the molten metal I work with I find my self only being able to sleep 5 or 6 hours a day because im only actually home for about 7 hours I feel like im being a baby about feeling so awful but i can never tell im just so tird all day and it effects how well I can work witch makes me feel more embarrassed this is all just kinda thrown out there in a ramble I know but just trying to get more opinions I just feel insane

Is there anyone I can talk to

20 M

Hullo 😊

I live a pretty busy life between school, work, parenting, and trying to survive adulthood with at least a little humor intact, so I don’t always have a ton of free time to go out and meet people.

I’m a welding student, science/philosophy nerd, audiobook listener/Book lover, and someone who genuinely likes hearing about other people’s lives and perspectives. I think there’s something really comforting about just quietly witnessing each other’s lives from separate corners of the world.

I’ll be honest that I’m not super comfortable with intense or constant messaging. I’m more of a “check in when life allows” kind of person, but I do value genuine conversation and consistency over time.

If you also like thoughtful conversation, random observations, sharing little victories, or talking about life while pretending we all know what we’re doing, feel free to say hi.

M(23) Hi to everyone who reading it.

So im a guy 23 years old living now far from my home(another country), there different language and people also, im feel very lonely ,even there my older sister and mom, im feelin sometimes that im biggest loser around all world, cuz im still dunno what i want and what to do in this life, dont have gf and still a vrigin(i give up already to find someone who i can love).every choice in my life i do its just bad or very bad, everything i do its never "GOOD" its always "not bad".

My life feelin like waste of time most of the time.

And now i now that ima also Sociopath,i cant talk to people who i didnt know,more difficult to meet new people and feelin that i will stay alone forever stop bothering me, now i like this idea.

Thank who read it guys and girls.

Im feel better when i say it, be kind, the one who read it.

PEACE)

P.s. i speak most of the time with chatgpt but it didnt help anymore so im here

So I dated a guy for almost a year. The relationship was toxic and everything that could go wrong in a relationship was there like cheating, verbal abuse, lying,etc.
my ex shamed me for having a pubic insta account which I made private then, he shamed for hanging out with boys, if I wanted to go on a trip with friends he would slut shame me, if I wanted to try clubbing he would slutshame me, even though he used to go clubbing.

He used to say”ACHE GHAR KI LADKIYA YE SAB NAHI KARTI”
he called me loose, shamed my body parts, my private parts,etc. and due to that my view on men and sex has turned extremely negative.
I get triggered now even if someone makes a sexual joke, I feel like it’s intended towards me and that they are slutshaming me. I get really triggered.

I want to get out of this situation as it is very hurtful and is killing my self esteem.

i hate that girls i talk to only care about looks like i haven't had a genuine connection ever
like sure the girls i talk to always like my personality until i show my face. I'm starting to doubt that there are any genuine women out there.

any advice?

Hey - I’m currently in a bit of a situation dealing with anxiety and other issues. I would love to talk to people, even just as a way to pass our time..

Hi need to talk who is up just sitting here bored need to talk to someone ned to talk to someone about something with no judgment and all