r/PlentyofFish

This site is so bad that it unblocks people you have blocked the last time you logged on. I guess they just dont have enough people signed up. I have blocked like 15 creeps that have been on there for YEARS. I took a few months off. Came back and all of them are unblocked. This is such a joke.

If it weren't for the 4 nice people i would just give up.

Im also a chic so it is easier for me to put up with this.

I'm in two minds whether the person I have been chatting to initially pof but latterly on telegram is legit.

I got a new Sim and gave him that number. they never asked for my personal info so I don't know his last name and he doesn't know mine. but did suggest softly but not in as many words meeting up whilst he were in UK last month.

I have used a few ai sites to check the photos but come up with them saying it's real pics. But one image he shared of him on a plane is one I found on the Internet but all others I cannot find at all.

Where's he claim to work I cannot verify easily as it's a big company.

It can be hard to get a hold of him just wait for him to reply to messages on telegram! Not had phone call or video calls he keep claiming he will call when he is free!

He hasn't pushed me for personal details. The pic I did send doesn't exist anywhere else as I normally share distant pics.

AI pointing at romance scam, with his behaviours and some of what he said. He won't get money out of me as I got none he is adamant he has plenty. I told him I'm very independent not had a man fir several years, I've been on the Internet for over 30 years so I'm not so stupid.

Any ideas people! Has anyone else had a possible romance scammer, I'm interested to learn more from others?

Why do any of you use plenty of fish?

Why do any of you use plenty of fish other than reporting profiles then coming on here to desperate refresh the page until you get a response to something you said, or thinking women want ' brad Pitt' whos now a fat drunk in his 50's and nobody cares about him anymore, or to complain the prices are to high when they have a free version.

Do you like listing EVERY dating site your on as a accomplishment to tell they world your to ugly, broke sad and desperate to meet someone, or do you value signing up for sites to get over isolation, mental illness, divorce or just the hit of dopamine when you get a message, men will be on the site for years to receive 1 message then just assume its a relationship.

What are you latching onto, why do you keep trying, what ' pulls you in' is it the attention, the fact that you don't know any better, that you can go on here and talk to your 'friends' who type the same response everyday because they know someone will respond, you can send 10 free messages a day as a women, so again, WHY PAY, when the site does not offer a refund and you clearly go on here to complain instead of your bank, i guess if my money got stolen from a dating website id also go on a site to complain to complete strangers who dont care & can't do anything about it. 

Why do any of you need the attention of a response, is sitting in a dark room in a chair staring at the wall your only other option, its fascinating on a mental level the amount of self hatred you all must have to simply sign up for Facebook,pof, match etc only to get ignored, lied to, ripped off and stood up.  Maybe as an outsider whos not divorced, old, stupid, ugly or completely unaware of life, i can't see the point as i don't use any dating sites, at the end of the day do any of you ever just say forget it, delete EVERYTHING and step away from meeting people virtually, what are you sincerely afraid of rejection for?

I guess talking to a pretty girl for 1 night then having her profile get deleted and you saying' whew, thank god it was her and not me' that 1 night conversation can restore your faith in both life and relationships because any of you either saw your ex wife or husband cheat on you, get murdered, die of natural causes or you have just never had a relationship.

I've been crushing on Indian American men and have noticed them noticing me too. I find it even harder to date them in my thirties because sadly many are already married by this stage in life. Still the search continues for myself an attractive, curvy and athletic Caribbean American woman to find an available Indian American man in the near future.

The site requires a £30 fee to use the majority of functions of the site!? - It wasn’t like this a few years ago! - Sure, I understand having premium features. But paywalling 90% of the site at a ridiculously high rate is ridiculous.

Note to the CEO of Match group: Jacking up prices isn’t being an entrepreneur.

So imagine paying to upgrade just to get perma banned 3 days later without cause. Support claimed they reviewed the account and it violated TOS but refused to tell the user what TOS was violated. Complete scummy bullshit.

For example I get one woman who writes she is from New York, New York in her profile, When I ask her where she is from she says Syracuse. Which is 400 miles away from New York,Newyork