can i manifest him back ? is there chance between us ?
I’ve been manifesting my ex for almost 3 weeks now.
A little backstory: we were together for a year. We were in a long-distance relationship and had never met in person because we planned to continue our studies together at the same university this October. Unfortunately, things fell apart before that could happen. The first few months of our relationship were amazing, but eventually we started arguing more often. There were constant misunderstandings, we both said hurtful things, and he accused me of cheating and disrespecting him, even though I never had any intention of hurting him. He called me a narcissist, manipulative, and a hypocrite, despite me never being unfaithful or doing anything behind his back.
I admit that during some arguments I said hurtful things out of frustration, but I always came back, apologized sincerely, and tried to make things right. I also acknowledge that my anxiety, insecurities, and overthinking pushed him away. At the same time, whenever he hurt me even questioning my worth as a woman , I forgave him easily. But when I made mistakes, it was incredibly difficult for him to forgive me. At the beginning of our relationship, he promised me that he would never leave me, no matter what we went through. I trusted him completely. Things got worse after that.
In February, we had a misunderstanding because I misread one of his texts. It was such a small issue, but we ended up going no contact for two weeks. During that time, he told me that our relationship was no longer his priority. I was heartbroken. On top of that, I’ve been dealing with anxiety and growing up in a toxic household where my parents have argued almost every day since I was a child. Carrying all of that alone made everything even harder. Two weeks later, he reached out to check if I was okay. He gave me another chance because I had been in a really bad place mentally. I was so grateful, but something had changed. The spark wasn’t the same anymore. We no longer texted every day, and he stopped calling me by the sweet nicknames he used to.
Even so, I worked hard to become a better version of myself. I tried not to be needy while silently dealing with my family problems. I stopped burdening him with what I was going through because I didn’t want to push him away any further. Since we were still long-distance, I couldn’t physically show him how much I had changed. From February until May, we continued talking casually. We still texted and occasionally called each other, although not every day. It almost felt like nothing had happened between us. Then, on May 8th, everything changed.
He deleted our shared location app and removed my phone number. When I woke up and realized what had happened, I completely broke down. I cried, screamed, spiraled, and begged him not to leave. I sent long paragraphs and called him several times.
The only thing he said was, “I’m tired. I never felt respected as a man.”
Two nights before that happened, I had opened up to him because I wasn’t doing well emotionally. He misunderstood my message and assumed I was trying to start another argument or end the relationship, when all I wanted was comfort. I never intended to hurt him. Eventually, I accepted that I couldn’t force someone to stay. I sent him one final goodbye message. Two days later, he replied.
He said, “Take care, sweetheart,” and “I love you”—words I hadn’t heard from him in four months. That night, we officially ended things. That same night, I started manifesting him using subliminals and the Law of Assumption. I simply decided that he would come back. I let go of expectations because I knew how stubborn and decisive he was.
Then, only two days later, he unexpectedly texted me asking how I was doing. We even had a phone call. It felt like the breakup had never happened.
Although he never mentioned getting back together, I noticed he still cared about me. He even called me by a sweet nickname again, which confused me. I couldn’t tell whether he genuinely missed me or simply missed having me around without wanting to rebuild the relationship. Everything continued like that until June 9th. We had a four-hour phone call, played online games together, and genuinely enjoyed each other’s company. But at the end of the call, I made a mistake.
I asked him why he had deleted my number and why he still hadn’t saved it again. He kept avoiding the question and only told me not to overthink it.
I became frustrated because I wanted to know where I stood in his life. For months, I had been living in confusion. Some days he was affectionate, other days we’d go a whole week without speaking. I never knew what we were anymore. I ended the call and cried. The next morning, I regretted reacting that way. I apologized sincerely and told him I was willing to let the question go. He never replied.
I sent a few heartfelt messages, but they all stayed on delivered. I gave him space because I didn’t want to force him to stay anymore. Eventually, I sent one final message. He never responded.
A few days later, I decided to manifest him again because I believed I had manifested him back the first time. However, this time has been much harder. I keep spiraling between hope and doubt. Some days I confidently affirm and let go of the old story. Other days I wake up anxious, crying, and replaying everything that happened. One sentence he said keeps echoing in my mind: “You’re just adding another trauma to my life.” That hurt me deeply because, from my perspective, he also became another trauma in mine.
I never had a peaceful childhood. I grew up in a broken home where my parents argued constantly. My siblings had their own struggles, and as the youngest, I felt like I carried burdens that weren’t mine while trying my best to study hard and break the cycle. Before him, I had my first relationship at 18. It lasted only a month. I believed it was love, gave him everything, and even lost my virginity to him. A week later, he ghosted me, and I found out he had cheated on me with my friend.
This relationship was my second. Because of the distance, we couldn’t be together physically, but we shared intimate moments over the phone. He promised me a future. He made me believe we would build a life together, and that’s why I trusted him with my whole heart. Now I’m exhausted. I’m tired of waking up with anxiety, carrying anger, resentment, and trauma from everything that’s happened. But despite all of that, something inside me keeps telling me not to give up.
I know he isn’t perfect. He’s stubborn, judgmental, and often closed-minded. He struggles to listen when I try to explain my perspective. But I also know he has a kind side, and I truly believe people can change.
So my question is:
Can I still manifest him back?
Is there still hope for us?
I would really appreciate encouragement from people who genuinely believe in the Law of Assumption. Please don’t tell me to move on or find someone else. I respect that everyone has different beliefs, but I’m specifically looking for support from those who understand manifestation.
I believe our assumptions create our reality, and I’ve realized that many of my previous fears, insecurities, and negative thoughts were reflected back into my relationship. I’m choosing to believe that a new story is possible, and I’d love to hear from anyone who has experienced something similar.