r/SocialSkillsAdvanced

So when dealing with people and I speak up about something they did, alot of times they explode with next to violent rage (idk maybe my babyface as an adult male triggers the lizard brain attack/punch button with people lol). In the future when i text them or talk to them later about the issue (the passive aggressive route) they claim im being to sensitive. Any advice from anyone with experience with thia issue?

I was trying out this new club at university it’s a film club .then I decided to go alone because I don’t have a lot of friends and I’m trying to make more friends.

As I arrived at the club there they were people by the door I wanted to ask if this was the correct club but they seemed deep in their conversations.
so I decided to get in but no one said anything.

And I asked one of the girls if I’m the right club then she said yes .
I asked if anyone was seating next to her because she seemed alone or lonely then she said yes ,which is like a bit okay and like she didn’t try to speak to me or anything because I was trying to get into a conversation.
i ended up seating by myself and felt too awkward I decide to leave
Should I have done anything else.this has never happened to me I usually get at least a conversation from people.