r/TwentiesPH

May ex ako for 7 years, everything went well— but there's something so bothering, my partner never exert efforts sa dates, di ako binibilhan, never pinakilala sa pamilya, yung parang normal lang na para bang di kami mag partner. Then afterwarda, I found out na may kalandian pala siya, yun yung kalandian niya, binibilhan niya, nag dadate sila patago and kilala ng pamilya as a close friend. So nakipag break ako, mahirap bumitaw kasi nga mahal mo pero ano magagawa mo di nga ikaw yung mahal so nag let go ako. After a year, may nakilala ako- jusko dzaeeeee first day siya gumastos, siya nag plan lahat, siya nag gastos, I insist na umambag pero ayaw niya siya daw bahala. 2 years na kami next month, and in a short span of time kilala na ako ng parents, and ng boung angkan pinakilala sa mga friends, naka featured sa facebook, random gifts sa random na araw, sabi ko nga SSS tier level ang pagiging provider kasi binibigay sakin a portion of his salary para lang daw may pang gastos ako, e sinasave ko nalang sa bangko kasi may work din naman ako. Lahat nalang ng pwede e provide sakin binibigay. At dun ko narealize na men are really so simple to read, if mahal ka mag pro-provide talaga sila sayo. Not in the most expensive ways man pero in a most whole heartedly naman. Hindi naman ako materialistic, and personally I can buy things for myself, but d*mn this person is really something. And take note, walang nag bago sa 2 years na yan, lumala pa nga ang pagiging provider kind of partner pa siya to the point na gusto niya sa kanya ako hihingi ng pamasahe papuntang work 😭 God thank you for letting me have him hihihi.

Hiii, I need girl besties here 😭🎀

Looking for girls na pwede kong maging kasama sa “wag muna mag-boyfriend, wala tayong pera at emotional stability para diyan” era HAHAHAHAHA.

Like let’s remind each other na hindi natin kailangan ng lalaki, kailangan natin ng pera, peace of mind, hobbies, travel plans, at character development 😭

I want friends na pwede kong kausapin about literally anything. Random chika, life problems, crushes na dapat naman hindi natin gusto, “teh wag mo na siyang i-chat,” random thoughts at 2AM, bagong obsession, mga bagay na gusto bilhin kahit wala namang budget, or kahit “girl look at this” for absolutely no reason.

We can hype each other up, send random stuff, rant, overshare a little, disappear for 5 hours, then come back like nothing happened HAHAHA. No pressure to be available 24/7, I just want genuine girl friends na same wavelength.

And if madami tayo, GC tayo PLEASE 😭 . If you're also trying to build yourself, save money, travel, find new hobbies, glow up, or simply survive your 20s without making questionable romantic decisions... etc.

Girlies, assemble. 🎀

ako job market is so bad, even latin honors and state u grads cannot even get it fr 🫠