How to respond
My ex and I have been broken up for over a year now. It took time and healing, but we really are friends now. Healthy distance (we also live in different states now), no flirting, appropriate boundaries, etc. We say we miss each other sometimes, but not often. She said this yesterday and I want to ask what she misses - “what do you miss?” Or “what do you miss about me?” I’m wondering if that’s too much? I want to know because recently she’s been texting less (she’s busy with work & I understand)…but she knows I’m a call/text away. When I say I miss her, I miss being able to talk to her whenever about whatever, I miss our catch up calls, I miss having her around. I’m just really curious about what she misses about me, but I’m not sure if that’ll come off flirty or something. I could be overthinking it but I just wanted to come on here for advice on how to proceed. I’m so grateful to still have her in my life and the last thing I want is to make things weird between us. I also neeeed to know lol. Thank you all, in advance. :)