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Question for Trans men

This is the last question I have. I know people in here saw my post earlier.

On a different sub there was regretful parent who was FtM. He was calling herself mom. Wasn’t the whole point of transitioning is to be called a father. What are the rules? These days ? Bc u call someone the wrong pronoun it’s bad. But then calling them the opposite parent title. Is good. Or neutral.

I remember in the autism sub some MtF. Who was asking for advice on how to not pay not pay child support and avoid jail time due to finances. She called herself mom.

So my question is for FtM people.

I am curious why some of you want to get pregnant ? Is this common? It seems rare. There was a YouTube channel called Truly that had pregnant trans men. I would watch it sometimes. The show made it seem uncommon.

When that is something normally “women” do. Wouldn’t it give you gender dysphoria to get pregnant and give birth.

My only explanations to why some choose to is bc it’s cheaper to give birth than to get a surrogate.

They want to experience birth.

They are gender non conforming and believe women and men can have kids as long as they have a uterus.

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u/brownieandSparky23 — 10 days ago

Need resources, grieving infertility. How do I come to terms with it?

Good morning everyone. For context I'm a recently self discovered AMAB, NB. At this point in time my body goals are to end up somewhere androgynous/ butch? Androgynous as in looking like both not neither. What really weighs on me is I was the only son in my immediate family, and cruel enough I'm also probably the only child of my parents that would want to have kids in the future. I don't know if it's real but I feel shame from not having bio offspring, and HRT tanking my fertility. I would love to hear some advice or experience.

Edit: AMAB, meant AMAB, posted this before having to run to an appointment. So sorry.

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u/hare-tech — 9 days ago