r/bdsmlr

▲ 17 r/bdsmlr

Why did BDSMLR sabotage their own site?

It's just a mystery to me. Why would anyone destroy their own site the way the BDSMLR team have? The already few remaining users have now fled (mainly to imaglr) and the (admittedly very small ) potential they had for turning a buck is out the window. What were they thinking?

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u/alexandrageorgina — 3 days ago
▲ 9 r/bdsmlr

Ok, I give up. What are the alternatives?

Bdsmlr was never perfect but it's always been acceptable.

So the new problems? I just give up.....

I tried imaglr, and I just don't get on with it. I know a lot of people like it, I personally do not.

What other options are there? I'd happily pay, but I don't even know what they're is out there

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u/Wide_Commission_1595 — 3 days ago
▲ 14 r/bdsmlr

site layout

Are we never getting the old site layout back? the posts i see have lost captions and you can barely interact with them.

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u/Ok-Wrongdoer5892 — 5 days ago
▲ 7 r/bdsmlr

I’m still persisting…

Although I nearly gave up. Does anyone have any idea how to follow and unfollow blogs in BDSMLR since it’s redesign?

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u/electro-king — 6 days ago
▲ 0 r/bdsmlr

We’re building a new kink platform — looking for beta testers

Hey everyone,

We’ve been building MatchMyKink — a platform designed from the ground up for the kink and BDSM community. We’re now in beta and looking for people to try it out, break things, and tell us what’s missing.

What makes it different from what’s out there:

  • Scene Planner — draft, negotiate, and agree on scenes with built-in consent management. No more back-and-forth texts trying to remember what you discussed.
  • D/s Task & Accountability tools — rules, goals, check-ins, consequence tracking, merit/demerit system, escalation ladders. Designed for real power exchange dynamics, not just chat.
  • Executive Contracts — structured agreements with digital signatures, clause libraries, version history. Take your dynamic seriously.
  • Safety-first design — Safe Signal (panic button that bypasses quiet hours), safeword system, limits tracker, aftercare guides, safe call tools. Safety isn’t an afterthought.
  • Interactive games — board games, card games, dare generators, remote play with toy integration. For when you want to play, not just talk.
  • 296+ kink checklist with compatibility scoring — actually see how well you match before you meet.
  • Real-time chatrooms — topic-based with text, voice, and video.
  • Privacy by default — no email exposure between users, granular privacy controls, anonymous browsing options.
  • Available in multiple languages — English, German, Spanish, French, Dutch, Russian, Chinese, and more. Built for the global community.

What we’re looking for:
Beta testers who will actually use the platform and give honest feedback. Tell us what works, what doesn’t, what’s confusing, what’s missing. We’re building this for the community, and that means the community shapes what it becomes.

How to join:
Sign up at matchmykink.com and use the code MMKBETA to unlock Gold tier for 1 year — that’s all core features, unlimited. No credit card, no catch.

We’re a small team, we read every piece of feedback, and we ship fast. If you’ve ever wished FetLife had [insert feature here], this is your chance to help build it.

Questions? DM me or comment.

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u/MissionPure9217 — 8 days ago
▲ 2 r/bdsmlr

Developer Feed - Archive limited

I've been using the Developer Reference / Archive to reblog my pics to imaglr, but I've found that the archive has a 25 page limit. Is there away around that limit?

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u/DanDelaware — 9 days ago
▲ 15 r/bdsmlr

I made an RSS feed generator for bdsmlr (useful for migrating to imaglr)

I've spent the last few weeks experimenting with the bdsmlr API and built something I think many of you will find useful.

If you've ever tried following blogs via RSS or migrating a large blog to imaglr, you've probably run into broken image feeds. This tool addresses that issue.

Try it here: https://bdsmlr-rss.up.railway.app

Just enter a blog name, preview the feed, and use the generated URL for imaglr rss imports.

For private blogs, you'll need to provide your v2_session token from bdsmlr. The site will tell you if a blog is private. The token is used only for authentication and is never stored or logged. Source code: https://github.com/zastraeaxyz/bdsmlr-rss

If you find any bugs, please let me know in the comments.

Note: This is intended mainly as a migration tool. I probably won't keep it hosted for longer than a month, so if you need it, don't wait too long. If bdsmlr changes something and the feeds break again, I'll do my best to get a fix out quickly.

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u/zastraeaxyz — 13 days ago
▲ 2 r/bdsmlr

Captions

On my Blog I aways posted images on the Captions part and now none of them are on the new BDSMR....they are all broken links! they not even on the old BDSMR page anymore , I have moved to imaglr and would like to add them on to that site , Help?

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u/Allseeingeye2906 — 12 days ago
▲ 2 r/bdsmlr

500 Server Error on only one page of Liked Posts

Trying to take stuff off of my account to transfer to imaglr. Found the error in the title. It's only page 10, every other page loads fine (slow and all images broken but that's standard with bdsmlr) except pg 10. Anyway to get around this? Should I try unliking posts to get the liked posts stuck on pg 10 down to pg 9? Is this section of the website still updating at all?

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u/UnrulyRaven — 13 days ago
▲ 7 r/bdsmlr

Pics dont load anymore

To be honest i have already moved on to the other site completely for a while now and only have a couple of bdsmlr page saved because they're good captions, but now i can't even enjoy them anymore because no pictures/gifs can load

I'm asking if this is a problem everyone else is facing?, but tbh i truly am not surprised if after i stop using bdsmlr it has somehow stopped working completely

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u/Kingoferusia — 14 days ago