r/care

Trying to find help covering my Dad’s cremation cost. - Oklahoma, USA
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Trying to find help covering my Dad’s cremation cost. - Oklahoma, USA

I am looking for help covering the remaining cost of my Dad’s cremation and later service.

He just recently lost his battle with a multitude of medical illnesses that end with him spending the last month after his 71st birthday in a hospital and then on hospice.

I am one of his four children, and only two of us have jobs so it is up to us and what we can make happen. We are looking at almost a $3000 total cost. The other photo was him at his 71st birthday party, exactly one month before his passing.

https://gofund.me/a38fe8bce

https://www.wilsonofpondcreek.com/obituaries/marvin-neilson

u/Affectionate_Fact109 — 5 days ago
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Wife of 16 years cheated and changed the locks, am now living in my car

Like the title says, I found out she was cheating. I then (unrelated) got double pneumonia and kidney failure, spent 22 days in the ICU. I got out to find she was refusing to let me in the house, changed the locks, and forced me into homelessness. I have my car, and one change of clothing. All my belongings are boxed and in the garage of the house.

I drove 800 miles to stay briefly with a relative until I was able to return to work. I then had to come back 800 miles. However, I don't get paid until the 21st.

There is a garbage motel in a garbage area of town that is $395/week + tax, I'm trying to raise enough to cover that for a week so I have somewhere to sleep and shower. I am otherwise sleeping in the parking lots of rest stops and Cracker Barrel. I get free coffee at work so I can probably count that as food until I get paid. I otherwise have not eaten in a week.

She originally offered to pay for the deposit on an apartment (500) but is now refusing outright, so it's parking lots or the motel if I can save enough.

Literally anything is better than nothing at this point. I just desperately need to come up with enough to have a bed until I get paid.

In a non-stop panic attack. Panting like a dog at all times, anything would help.

Zanesville, OH 43701 U.S.

I can post like cash app or whatever details in a private message or whatever is necessary, but I am just in a dead absolute rabbit panic and have no idea what I'm going to do.

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u/DocEss — 6 days ago
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Update regarding our cat Zed situation I posted 2 months ago

Hello!

I'm here to post another update regarding Zed's treatment.

After the problems we had, we were contacted by the management of the veterinary hospital (Anicura), and they said they would take responsibility for what happened.

The next visits to the vet were on them; everything else was on us, such as medication that costs around €100 per month.

It was a huge help that the consultations were free (2 consultations). They said they would charge for the last consultation because it was no longer part of the treatment, around €450.

He was considered 90% cured, and Zed feels much better and is already up to a lot of mischief.

We are left with the extra expense for the rest of Zed's life, which is currently around €100 for heart medication.

And regarding Zed's case, things have improved, but we were told that his disease (feline triaditis) was not contagious, but after a lot of research and talking to doctors for humans, we were told that gastrointestinal problems can be contagious. What happened is that our other cat caught the same disease as Zed. And now she's fighting for her life.

Anyway, we really want to thank you for all the help you've given us so far, and I'm going to leave Gofund me online because any help is welcome, whether it's for the next paid consultations or for his medication.

Our Gofundme page for anyone that wants to keep supporting us:

https://gofund.me/2cd30ec2b

u/Hasteitall — 9 days ago
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I am begging for help SALT LAKE CITY UTAH USA

I am literally at the breaking point.. I have received an offer for my settlement but I need a little help to get the rest. https://gofund.me/cf7826976 idk what kind of proof I need to post for this besides a screenshot from my landlord saying hes going to lock me out of my place. I am asking for 1500 left on my go fund me

****UPDATE****

Landlord has given me until the 1st to come up with the funds

u/twitchtvvrsa_brtl — 14 days ago