Pronouns… FML
Hi, new here… I’ll try to make this really simple. I’ve known for a couple years I’m agender. I don’t strongly identify as male, female, or nonbinary. I just simply… don’t give a fuck. I’m AFAB so most people stick with she/her in reference to me and I’ve been chill with it… despite me having asked friends and colleagues in the past to mix it up but… recently my partner came out as genderfluid and used more neutral nicknames for me. “Pretty one” “Pretty little thing” things of that nature. Not having a gender assigned to it… felt so… right? Like… it just felt really nice to have it be they/them. I’ve at least thought I was agender but now I’m questioning things and I… I guess I just need to talk to people who get it? Is this normal? Am I realizing something new? I know I never wanted to use neo pronouns. Having he/him used in reference was just a meh. She/her is better but… they/them just… clicked? I’m confused…