r/r4rMelbourne

Howdy everyone!

I’m over the dating apps but still want a fun cuddle buddy for winter now that it’s getting cold again! I made a similar post last year and had good success meeting people, so thought I’d try my luck again.

About me: physically I’m, 21f, brown hair, brown eyes, curvy body type, very very faded summer tan.

Personality wise, I’m shy to start with, but will yap your ear off once I get comfortable. I’d like to think I’m funny but I’ll let you decide. I’m progressive and open minded and hope you are too. I’m sex positive and have enjoyed exploring.

I don’t always have a lot of free time but when I do, you can find me at Cinema Nova on a Monday, frolicking through the city findings a good wine bar or at the library returning the books I never ended up reading.

What I’m looking for: ultimately looking for a fwb type situation. Friendship and connection is important to me, so not looking for ONS atm. I’m not quite ready for a relationship, but enjoy the boyfriend benefits. I’m hoping to find someone to get to know, spend time with and have a casual but consistent connection.

If you’re interested, please send me a message with a bit about yourself! Let me know how you think we could spend our time together.

Hey girls!

We are an attractive mid 30s couple who want to try something a little different. We would like to chat with some others that are into voyeurism/exhibitionism themselves. It’s our first time posting r4r as we mostly play online.. so it’s a bit of a jump!

We are looking for another girl who’s always wanted to watch a couple, or who has done it before! We’re looking for all experience types ☺️ We’re pretty chill, but we like to get to know people before we jump into things! We can offer travel stories and snacks 🥰

We are super into our privacy and would need verification (we can do the same!). Send us a DM ☺️

Hey

I’m 24 m from Melbourne.Not an Aussie though

I love watching movies, tv shows, formula one and the occasional gaming session. Otherwise I’m mostly buried in assignments and work.

Looking for someone to talk to and binge watch shows or movies with and share anything without any judgement

Hope to hear from you

Hey everyone, I made a post earlier in the year and totally forgot about this account, but I thought I’d give this another shot and see how things go :) Low effort messages will not responded to so please keep that in mind!

A bit about me:

I think as life has gotten busier, I’ve definitely become a lot more introverted. I still really enjoy meeting new people and having good conversations, it just takes me a little longer to warm up to people now.

Most of the time I’m pretty happy doing my own thing like going on walks, listening to music, watching random videos, or just rotting peacefully after work/uni. I try to catch up with friends whenever I can, but being in my final year of uni has made scheduling literally anything so much harder (adulting 😭).

On the bright side though, I started my first proper big girl job earlier this year, which has been really exciting!! I’m still getting used to the whole work-life balance thing, but I think I’m slowly figuring it out.

I’m also thinking of buying myself Tamadotchi Life on the Switch at the end of the month as a little “congrats on surviving uni” gift, but I’m always open to game recommendations if anyone has favourites.

What I’m looking for:

Honestly? Just someone to chat to or hangout with if we get along well. I’d love to get my confidence back and be more open to meeting new people! I’m honestly keen on doing activities (ex. Going to the park, Zoo, etc.) or sitting around doing absolutely nothing, I’m not too fussed really. It’d be great if we shared the same interests or goals (maybe?) but again, not a huge deal breaker. But in saying that, I’d be more comfortable meeting people around the same age so 21-30 would be ideal.

What I offer:

- Good company

- Good conversation (hopefully)

- a listening ear

- back and forth banter

Essentially a ball of entertainment. So if any of this sounds good to you then I’d love to hear from you :) Maybe to get started tell me a bit about yourself? Like a hobby, favourite nickname, favourite animal, etc. My personal favourite animal is a Binturong.

What l'd love to find: A man who can be both fun and playful but go deep with conversation and emotional intimacy.

Me: I'm midsize (14) about 5'6. I love animals and nature, walking, picnics, music of all genres and horror movies especially. I struggle with topics like work/finance/politics. Thrive in topics like psychology/social challenges/spirituality/mental health. I'm attracted to men who like to lead, wine and dine me, however l'm not materialistic at all. Treat me well and I'll worship you type dynamic. Physically I prefer - my height or taller. Bigger build (can't do slim sorry I know I hate that about me too lol) I tend to vibe best with neurodiverse folk but not a necessity. Reach out if you'd like to chat :)

Hi!
put some effort into this post, if you just want the straightforward details they’re below this. But if you’re interested I recommend reading the rest.

32 F - straight - 5’3 - BBW (curvy-licious) - blonde - Caucasian.

Married in an ENM - poly/open dynamic. Means we play and date other people solo. For this post I’m seeking solo company.

Looking for:
- 25-36 years old.
- Drug and disease free
- Non smoker and non vaper
- Not seeking a discreet affair, I’m not into home wrecking.
- I’m not looking to be your dirty little whore, your slut or just some booty call straight up. I’m looking for connection, passion and chemistry.

What I offer:
- The girlfriend experience without the strings and the in-laws 😉.
- No commitment needed, no exclusivity needed and as long or as short as you want.
- A loving, kind and cheeky personality.
- Affection, cuddles, head massages, kisses all over your face, etc. The cute fluffy stuff.
- Golden retriever energy
- Passer princess who loves some car karaoke. No promises I’m good, just fun.
- Drug and disease free, non smoker or vaper.
- Will Split bills and such. I don’t expect you to pay for everything. I appreciate being spoiled, but only when it’s because you’re willing not because you feel obligated.
- I don’t expect to be your priority - ever. You got work, kids or friends and family commitments? They come first!
- Kink friendly/non judgemental.

My interests include:
- Art & craft / being creative
- Video games and board games
- Tv/movies
- Anime/manga
- Japan/speak some Japanese
- Animals
- Ballroom dancing and a little Latin.
- Music - especially house/electronic funk

If this interests you DM me and let’s chat! I’ve deliberately left out sexual stuff. Let’s chat and see where it goes from there. Happy to do a pic swap first to see if we like what we see as well.

Edit: based South East Melbourne

Hey! So I've recently found myself in a fifo job which makes it hard to both keep up a social life and cram my live music addiction into my single week off.

Since I travel for work I like spending my time off either being a massive homebody or going out to see a show.

I love live music, usually punk, hardcore and pub rock but I can get down with most things. I like going to gigs at Last Chance and Old Bar and the occasional DIY/scramz shows in whatever abandoned building they choose.

Solo gigs are fun and all but I'm looking for someone to go see a few gigs with in my weeks off and have a drink or two, preferably an ongoing friendship but one offs are fine. I'm about to go away for three weeks so plenty of time to chat and get to know each other before we commit to a gig!

Im pretty easy going, non-judemental and a bit on the nerd side despite being horribly blue collar and growing up bogan (I'm bogan no longer I swear it.)

Hopefully you're someone who likes going to shows and getting lost in the sound too!

Send a message and we'll see if we vibe!

Hi there,

#About Me

I'm fairly introverted and a bit of a nerd — I have AuADHD, which means I can get very passionate about the things I'm interested in.

I'm currently studying education, and I'm qualified in cybersecurity (though I haven't worked in the field). I follow current affairs pretty closely and listen to probably too many podcasts. If you want someone to talk your ear off about the news, I'm your person.

In my free time I enjoy puzzles, brain-training games, comedy shows, audiobooks (big sci-fi fan — Dune, Foundation, Discworld), video essays, and D&D content like Critical Role and Dimension 20. My ideal weekend is a walk down the street for coffee, or staying in for board games and TV — ideally with someone to actually share it with.

I'm a European woman with glasses, and I'm aiming for what I'd describe as a chaotically organised home life.

#What I'm Looking For

Someone aged 20–50, ideally in or willing to travel to the western suburbs.

I'm looking for a respectful, loyal, long-term relationship — someone to settle down and build a life with. Stability and mutual support matter a lot to me. Ideally you're attentive, comfortable with technology, and don't mind doing things together every now and again.

Over time, I'd love to share a home and build a future together — possibly including a family.

#What I Offer

Loyalty, acts of service, and words of affirmation.

I'm happiest in a supportive, home-focused role — taking care of life admin, offering emotional support, and genuinely investing in your growth and success. I want to build something calm and stable together, even if the house is a bit of a mess.

Emotional connection, trust, and partnership come first for me. More than anything, I'm looking for someone to face life with — side by side, through whatever comes.

(Yes, I've posted here before, but, not much has come of it yet... Still hoping for "the one"...)

Howdy everyone!

I’m over the dating apps but still want a fun cuddle buddy for winter now that it’s getting cold again! I made a similar post last year and had good success meeting people, so thought I’d try my luck again.

About me: physically I’m, 25f, brown hair, brown eyes, curvy body type, very very faded summer tan.

Personality wise, I’m shy to start with, but will yap your ear off once I get comfortable. I’d like to think I’m funny but I’ll let you decide. I’m progressive and open minded and hope you are too. I’m sex positive and have enjoyed exploring.

I don’t always have a lot of free time but when I do, you can find me at Cinema Nova on a Monday, frolicking through the city findings a good wine bar or at the library returning the books I never ended up reading.

What I’m looking for: ultimately looking for a fwb type situation. Friendship and connection is important to me, so not looking for ONS atm. I’m not quite ready for a relationship, but enjoy the boyfriend benefits. I’m hoping to find someone to get to know, spend time with and have a casual but consistent connection.

If you’re interested, please send me a message with a bit about yourself! Let me know how you think we could spend our time together.

Firstly, please don't bother messaging me if you're just looking for a root or you're already in a relationship. If you decide to message me, ensure you read my post in full.

About me:

Hey, I'm a cute mixed race babe with big dark eyes, long black hair and a pale olive complexion from outside of Melbourne. I'm curvy and fit the "BBW" body type with a pear shape, D cup breasts, thick thighs and a big bum.

If you were to ask my friends how they'd describe me, they'd probably say that I'm funny, intelligent and bubbly, but with some Daria-like tendencies. I can be bratty, and I'm dominant outside of the bedroom.

I have a diverse taste in music. However, I'm a reggaeton veteran and elder emo kid. But I enjoy so many types of music.

What I'm Looking For:

I'm opening myself up to meeting new people, having a cozy winter fling, or more depending upon the connection. However, I'm a demisexual and prefer to have a bond before taking next steps. I'd prefer someone I can do things with outside of the bedroom too.

Ideally you're tall dark and serious, but I'll gladly substitute handsome too. Open to professional men of all ages as long as you are intelligent and conduct yourself with maturity when it counts. I do love a man who can make me laugh, have fun and likes to make a woman feel good about herself. I prefer clean shaven men as my skin is sensitive. 💔

In the bedroom I'm a submissive brat. I act tough, but if I like you I'll fold easily and enjoy learning how to please you. However, I'm not turned on by online fantasy so apologies if that's your thing.

What I Offer:

If I sound like your type and you're comfortable with travel, then I offer good company and a tempting wintertime distraction.

Feel free to send me a dm me a little about yourself, and let me know what about my post made you think we'd click.

Heyo, I'm Amanda. I’ve just moved back to Melbourne after being away for about 3 years in Brisbane and unfortunately all my moving around has made it hard to maintain friendships (or relationships!). A little bit about me:

☆ Music is life and I’m hard stuck in the mid 2000s emo phase. Live music is where I feel the most at home

☆ Video games are my main hobby - addicted to TFT/Overwatch/HoMM/Fortnite (rival boards are a great addition, don't judge!) at the moment. Although I’m on the hunt for another multiplayer to get obsessed with

☆ I listen to too many podcasts

☆ I have some other hobbies like crocheting

☆ Love going for walks/hikes (probably the only time I tolerate being outside haha)

Other than that, I spend too many hours of my life in a boring office job.

If any of this catches your interest at all, shoot me a message :)

I'm like a cat, I nap a lot, i disappear for a few hours and no one knows wtf i do, i come back around for attention, push people away so i can nap again. I'll scream that I'm hungry, take a bite and be full. I'm a chronic over thinker, never switch off. Tonight's question is: Is my mum autistic or just German?

My interests vary, I just need my brain tingled. 🥦🥦🥦 Great messy food, sugar bandit some desserts, walk randomly around the city, see shows/movies/bands, spud fest was random but fun. I could find the joy in shopping for groceries.

I'm 5'4, blonde, blue eyes, chubby monkey. I dress like a soccer mum, I need to be comfy.

I'd love to meet people to try new, casual food places, sample cocktails at roof top bars (I love wearing coats, see what shows or exhibitions are around, random wandering. I'd prefer if you're not sober, sober people remember all the lies i tell when I'm drunk. I'd like if you enjoy being spammed by messages, I'm very needy and love high communication. Just be fun, affection and smart enough to help me cross the road when I refuse to wear my glasses.

I think meeting me is a good idea, I'll laugh at pretty much anything, celebrate all of your small victories (good job on not throat punching someone at work!), I'll go try restaurants that your friends have no interest in. It will feel like we've known each other for years!

Sorry not sorry for the longer post, trying to weed out as many people who don't fit the bill as possible. Posted on reddit before and ended up with like 200 responses with about 99% of them being from people that were the opposite of what I was looking for. Do not message me if you do not fit what I'm looking for.

About me / what I offer:

24 years old, (25 in a few months if that's important to you) queer, polyamorous, sub. Medium experience in kink, sexually adventurous, practice safer sex. Tall, alternative, curvy/chubby. I enjoy cooking, ethical true crime, and Stardew Valley. In a dynamic with a really great Dom <3

I'm communicative, have a very clear idea of what I'm into and not into, I'm also willing to try a lot of things out (within reason).

**What I'm looking for**

Looking for a man to engage in a specific kink dynamic, as per sub rules there's no kink list here. Check out my profile to see my post in a BDSM sub that's more specific.

Some non negotiable things:
I am not willing to budge on these, even just a little bit. Don't waste my time and do not expect me to be nice to you if you try anyway.

•	be experienced, both with kink and polyamory   
•	ideally aged 30-35, but willing to talk to people 27-37   
•	queer   
•	live in Melbourne   
•	willing to use condoms and get tested   
•	be open to chatting online for 2 weeks as an absolute minimum, good chance it'll be longer than that, meeting strangers from the internet is scary 

Some of my preferences:
• also be alternative
• have your own place (my living situation means I can't have people over, if you can't either we'll have to work that out together)
• bearded / hairy

Absolute no's:
• Younger than 27
• Older than 37
• Submissive
• Not living in Melbourne
• Inexperienced
• Couples
• "Hey how are you" and nothing else
• AI messages / profiles
• Booktok Doms
• Conservatives

Tell me a little about yourself when you message me. Don't go into my messages penis first. I'm not looking to rush anything and it's going to take time to develop the trust that is necessary to build a dynamic like this. Tell me what you'd enjoy in a dynamic like this.

PS- if you're on fetlife let me know your username so I can stalk your page lol