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M4F, 24, Berlin/anywhere

M4F, 24, Berlin/anywhere

Hello! I'm Simon. I'm 24 and live in Berlin, Germany.

I am 174cm./5’9’’ tall, with an average build. I like to think of myself as warm, thoughtful, and supportive. I come from a Soviet Jewish family. I would say my strongest language is English, followed by German and Russian.

I hope to find a Jewish woman of a similar age who is willing to get married and have three or more children. I'm not religious myself, but am open to various levels of observance, as well as various locations.

I like to write essays and poems, many of which have appeared in various online publications. Lately, I've developed an interest in Romantic literature, especially the nonfiction prose of Thomas Carlyle and William Hazlitt. I try to support Jewish causes, mainly through donations.

I'd be happy to provide further details and pictures in DMs.

Thanks for reading.

u/Infinite_Onion6975 — 3 days ago
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I enjoy free speech, am of Italian descent, am now a U.S. citizen, a divorced single mother, and currently reside in New York. It's nice to meet you all

u/Beautiful_night09 — 8 days ago

[27] M4F - Los Angeles - Looking for my beshert

What's up? My name's Brian. I live in the Beverly Hills area of Los Angeles and am training to be a rabbi in the Conservative movement. I speak English and Spanish, and am learning Hebrew. When I asked a friend to give five adjectives to describe me, I got "Introspective, reserved, intellectual, grounded, empathetic". I like to play piano, read and write poetry, compose music, and go bowling. I've worked as a private tutor, for Powell's books at their warehouse in Portland, and for FedEx lifting the overweight and oversized packages.

I love to cook and have on many occasions done soup from scratch when friends are sick. My challah and braised brisket are divine. And I love making comfort foods like grilled cheese and tomato soup. Those are just a taste (no pun intended) of the things I cook.

Two truths and a lie: I had two brain surgeries before turning 10, I've bowled a perfect 300, by age 13, I could read at the college level.

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u/DapperCarpenter_ — 7 days ago

Thanks!

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u/pcbuilder1234567 — 7 days ago

F4M - Looking for my husband

I’m looking for a meaningful relationship with someone who’s ready to build something lasting. I value kindness, humor, family, and a strong Jewish connection. I’m hoping to meet someone who is dating intentionally and ultimately wants marriage. I’m not looking to rush anything. I would ather take the time to get to know the right person and let something genuine develop naturally.

About Me
I’m a 25-year-old preschool teacher with a bachelor’s degree, and I hope to pursue my master’s degree in the future.
I love baking, reading, writing, painting, make up, and getting crafty. I also have two cats, and yes, we are a package deal. 🐈🐈

I’m a convert to Judaism. I originally converted through the Reform movement, but lately I’ve been feeling a strong pull toward Conservative Judaism. I’m still learning and exploring what that looks like for me, so I’m hoping to meet someone who is patient and open-minded about growing together in our Jewish practice and knowledge.
I grew up Christian, and unfortunately, my family isn’t particularly interested in my Judaism. They mean a lot to me, though, so being comfortable navigating that dynamic is important.

My current Jewish practices include lighting Shabbat candles, having Shabbat dinner, and celebrating the holidays. I’m also working toward becoming more observant in other areas, particularly being more intentional about technology on Shabbat and keeping kosher. These are goals I hope to continue working toward over the next year.

I am open to relocating for the right person.

Health & Family
I want to be upfront about a couple of things that are important to me.
I have struggled with my mental health in the past. I take medication and go to therapy, and I’m currently in a fantastic place mentally. Taking care of my mental health is something I take seriously and am proud of.
I’m also on a weight-loss journey, and I’m genuinely excited about the progress I’m making and the healthier lifestyle I’m building.
One important thing to know is that I’m unable to have children. If having biological children is an essential part of your future plans, I completely understand, but we likely wouldn’t be the right match.

About You
I’m looking for someone who:

- Is Jewish and between 23–33 years old
- Is preferably located somewhere in North America
- Wants to deepen their Jewish practices and knowledge
-Is dating with the intention of eventually getting married
- Is college educated, preferably
- Has a job and is financially stable
- Loves animals
- Open to relocation
- open-minded, kind, and willing to grow together
- prepared for my non-Jewish family to ask some very odd, and probably very well-intentioned, questions about Judaism

Most importantly, I’m looking for someone who wants to build a life together while continuing to learn, grow, laugh, and support each other along the way.

u/BrilliantCrafty1457 — 9 days ago

38F4A

38F, relocating to the East Coast to join an Orthodox Jewish community and continue my conversion journey.

I want to be transparent from the beginning: I am still in the conversion process, and my rabbi has advised me that this is not really the time for me to be dating. I respect that, and my faith and conversion are my priority. At the same time, this journey can sometimes feel a little lonely, especially while preparing to relocate and build an entirely new life and community.

So I thought I would put myself out there, without expectations. If my situation resonates with you and you would genuinely like to get to know me slowly and respectfully, I would be happy to talk.

A little about me: I’m 38, 5’5”, fit, brunette, and currently on a very meaningful faith journey. I’m serious about building an Orthodox Jewish life and am relocating specifically so I can live within a strong Jewish community and continue growing in my observance.

I’m not looking to rush anything or pretend I’m further along than I am. I’d much rather meet someone who understands that conversion is a process, respects the boundaries that come with it, and is comfortable simply getting to know one another as people.

If that sounds like something you’d be open to, feel free to send me a message.

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u/Euphoric-Choice-5903 — 8 days ago

F4M - 30, west coast

Based in portland, Oregon. My second home is Los Angeles, California and am willing to relocate back under appropriate circumstances.

Sephardic jewish woman looking for a traditional, conventional relationship.

My Jewish values include honoring Sabbath, major holidays and following Kosher law.

I'm 5'5. I value education, health and wellness, art, family and being active in the community.

Some of my hobbies include fashion, literature, crafts, botanical related wellness, garden, meditation, learning about history and culture, and supporting local art. I rarely travel due to my busy schedule but would love to do more of that in the future.

My favorite forms of entertainment/media include comedy shows (live, and also movies/series), classic rock, contemporary punk rock, pop music, folk music, live acoustic and jazz.

Prefer dating older for the sake of maturity levels, but flexible with age ranges if the connection fits.

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u/Fine-Spray5137 — 8 days ago

40-year-old MFW in Tacoma, WA

Hi all! My name is Matt! I'm 40, divorced and from Washington State. I'm a special education teacher who loves to travel, workout, run, read a good book, watch a good show and sing at karaoke. I do a lot of running events and am training for my 4th marathon!!!

I believe that you can make the world a better place by being kind to each other. I'm a proud Zionist Jew who considers himself traditional and goes to a Chabad house. For me, the perfect date would be having a lovely picnic in a park and strolling among the trees listening to the birds sing.

The photo I posted is from a community event where I volunteered to be dunk tanked lol!

u/MattHakor — 11 days ago