r/vizagDating

Hey! Just a rant 28M Bisexual.

I've met one guy from this sub and initially it was alright.. we spoke well.. The conversations were steamy.. We had fun.. So we decided to meet and he invited me over.. There wasn't any passion.. No chemistry.. All he wanted was to do was finish.. Although I made sure he did, there wasn't any intimacy after that.. He became cold and now won't even respond.. Is this how things are for Bi men? Or is it just me who ran into some bad luck?

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Vizag folks, what’s something everyone pretends to understand, but nobody actually does?

Genuinely curious… Could be about life, work, people, relationships, Vizag itself, or literally anything.

Let’s hear your most honest answers.

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u/Brief_Assumption6778 — 4 days ago

Why is everyone looking for 6 feet? 😂

I'm 5'6 and honestly just looking for a genuine connection.

Good conversations, mutual respect, laughing at stupid things, going on random drives, and being comfortable around each other.

Height is probably the easiest thing about a person to measure. 😅

Anyone else feel like genuine connection matters more than these checklists?

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u/dreamboat_g — 4 days ago
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Cold approach

How does women in vizag perceive cold approaches by strangers is it working out by any chance in vizag I mean working out means not being successful but are people responding with decent replies or else the heroes are coming to fight and create ruckus even when someone is approaching with good conduct

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u/Academic_Extreme9635 — 8 days ago

Wanna join us to witness meteor shower?

I'm going with my cousins, we are 3 going and, both are my sisters. I'm 22 M they 24f And we want one to join us to witness the meteor shower with us.

Time, today night 10 to Tomorrow morning 10.

Location, paderu.

In car

If you want to experience falling stars come join us.

Text me

Preferably women. But yeah any decent man can also text me.

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u/Real-Bass-8379 — 8 days ago

Did anyone meet someone or get a dm after posting on this sub?

Yetakaramayina answerlu ivvakunda nijam bolo. Did any of u guys actually meet someone or get a dm after posting on this sub? This question is only for guys; ammayilaki oddu anna vastayi DMs we know that.

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u/Hot-Main1367 — 9 days ago

22 M looking for a Healer 😌..

I was recently cheated on in a relationship, and honestly, it affected me badly. I ended up turning to drugs and alcohol to cope, but now I really want to heal and get my life back on track. I’m not looking for anything complicated right now. I’d just like to talk to some new people, especially girls, make genuine connections, and have some positive conversations. I think meeting good people and talking openly could help me move forward.

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u/RaiseExisting3248 — 9 days ago

20M | Hindi-Telugu | Looking to date longterm

Dating apps didn’t really work out for me, and college wasn’t much luck either… so I figured, why not give Reddit a shot? 🫪

I’m 20, 6’0” currently pursuing my B.Tech in Computer Science in Vizag, though I’m originally from Hyderabad. Dad had a transferable job, so I grew up in different cities and schools. Maybe that’s why I value genuine connections a little more.

People usually think I’m serious at first. Truth is, my resting face is just misleading Once I’m comfortable I’m the complete opposite 😛
I’d call myself an ambivert. I enjoy my own space, but I’m also the first one to say “Let’s go!” for a party, coffee, movies, go-karting, beach drives, late-night ice cream runs or any random spontaneous plan.

Low maintenance? Maybe Low effort? Never
I’m into travelling, badminton, photography, movies, TV shows, gaming (used to play a lot) and occasionally disappearing into random Reddit rabbit holes. Arijit Singh is almost always playing in the background.

I’m also working on getting fitter these days… although butter chicken keeps making that unnecessarily difficult🤧

I don’t smoke or drink not because I’m against it, I’ve just never felt like it. I’m a non-vegetarian and chicken is basically a staple at this point for me

I’m looking for something long-term. Not into casuals or hookups. I’d rather build a genuine friendship first, spend quality time together and let things grow naturally.

Looking for someone who’s kind, honest, communicates well, has a good sense of humour, and believes effort should go both ways. Height, religion or caste aren’t deal-breakers for me.

Biggest turn-off? Dry texting🫩
Right now, my focus is finishing college, building a career in cybersecurity and becoming a better version of myself.

If you’ve made it this far, don’t just say “Hi.”
Tell me something random about yourself… or your comfort movie. Let’s see where the conversation goes :)

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u/chillichicken99 — 13 days ago

Is the "organic meet-cute" completely dead in public spaces, or are we all just too afraid to approach each other?

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It feels like approaching someone in a public place (like a park, or cafe) has become a bit of a social taboo because people don't want to make others uncomfortable.

I genuinely miss the idea of striking up a conversation with a stranger out of nowhere. Do you think people are still open to this, or is the era of the spontaneous romantic meeting officially gone in favor of swiping? How would you react if someone approached you nicely in public?

If you're someone that wanted meet someone new what would you do?

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u/thebone_doc — 10 days ago