u/10thGroupA

Just didn't answer when I reached out.

Originally got banned by the old mods, because the dude was starting to spiral and behind my back went to the sub to get another grand from someone. Blamed me for his problems, kept writing me raging that I am making this harder when I recovered, when in reality this loser makes choices that makes his life harder.

Swore up and down he wasn't a piece of shit and was going to pay me the interest he owed, but as typical he lied. Eventually I forgot about the interest, but the mods want me to close these out.

Supposed to be a graphic design and webpage guru, but when he sent me his peptide website for selling grey (probably black) market peptides I used to design better sites in 2005. Probably explains why his graphic design site has a fatal error, his IG is dead, and his business hasn't had a review in 4 years.

His father died right after he spiraled, so father got to see it all go down. He was stated to be a strong Christian man, but his son didn't seem to take up that morality.

Really shouldn't have let this one slide, but I was trying to help her out and she was making small but regular payments. Three weeks ago she said she finally turned the corner and was going to knock it out. She picked up a 2nd job, stabilized herself and her storage unit and everything.

People wonder why often I am not compassionate. Here is an example of why compassion is usually a flaw and not a virtue.

EDIT: She just reached out using alternative methods. Guess things didn’t go the way she thought they would. So maybe my compassion was right and my snark here was wrong.

Finally paid it off!

Was half way through paying and then just decided to ghost. Google-fu didn't result in anything that would explain it.

Just decided to ghost, worked with him for years. Wrote me that he needed more than usual, he even nickel and dimed me on the interest. Stopped using Reddit

This dude is nuts. Hadn't borrowed in while, but was willing to help him. Turned around and gave me a sob story why he didn't repay me. Bugged him and bugged him and just got excuses. Was very patient with him.

Then he writes me and tells me he needs to talk to me on the phone, said it was important. So reluctantly I called him. He starts talking about Yvonne. I'm thinking it is his GF, he is telling me how she has a special place in his heart and she loves the long deep conversations. After a while I realize he is thinking the calls are from my number. I asked for clarification and he said yes. She calls me on your number.

Then he drops, the reason why he is wanting to talk to me, is because she doesn't like that I keep her phone locked up and refuse to let her have friends, especially male friends. He tells me I clearly know how beautiful she is and she can have any guy and that jealousy is being abusive. So he is calling to tell me to stop this behavior on her behalf.

This point, I'm like, "Dude, I don't know who you are talking about, but I thought this call was about setting up a plan to repay me the money you owe me."

He gets mad, tells me I am trying to scam him, I describe him and he says that is him, but he has never borrowed money from anyone, because he is making good money and recently was promoted. I doubt that, but anyways...

Then he goes off on how he needs to tell me that he is helping her go to the police so I stop beating her up and cracking her ribs. He tells me how he cares for her and wants what is best for her and he definitely doesn't want to have sex with her, he is doing this because he is a good person, blah blah blah."

I am trying to get a word in edge-wise. He just keeps going on how amazing she is, how I don't realize how lucky I am to have a woman with such beautiful breasts that a lesser man would only want and not want her for such a wonderful woman she is. He tells me I am acting like that lesser man. He keeps repeating her name is Yvonne.

I realize this dude is off his rocker. I finally get a word in and tell him, "I don't know a Yvonne, I know a Yvette and I haven't seen her since HS. You got the wrong person, just repay me and we can go our separate ways.

He then yells at me he never borrows money, because he is making 6 figures and has stock options, unlike me who is leeching off Yvonne.

This is maybe a 5-7 minute conversation and I realize that this isn't going to go anywhere and I would have to mark this unpaid.

Told him don't call me or text me again and hung up. Called me back multiple times that night and I just ignored him.

Hoped he came out of his psychosis, but he didn't. He's been calling me and sent me...I mean Yvonne a few texts about how he worries for her safety, totally platonic of course.

He looks exactly like you would expect, but not obese, actually very thin.

Things went sideways, but they did stick with it. I appreciate the integrity. The mark of a person is what they do when things go wrong.

Made a payment and decided to ghost. Not waiting more time since he missed 3 payments and hasn't posted on here since the first payment.

Recovering and moving on.

I checked obits, jail records, etc. Nothing hit, so don't know what he is doing other than ghosting.

Clearly had no intention of repaying. Posting on Reddit, but can't manage to respond to me.

Also stuck in a poverty loop and I doubt will get out of it anytime soon.

Clearly had no intention of repaying. Posting on Reddit, but can't manage to respond to me.

Also stuck in a poverty loop and I doubt will get out of it anytime soon.

Clearly had no intention of repaying. Posting on Reddit, but can't manage to respond to me.

Also stuck in a poverty loop and I doubt will get out of it anytime soon.

Things are settled up.

Keep his word, even in the struggles.

Not a good person, loves to talk about how good of person they are, they are selling things on reddit and doing other posts, so needs to be known to as a scammer.

Just clearing the books.

Paid partial and then stopped communicating. Taking international trips, so no excuse. Recovering and moving on.

Paid me exactly the agreed upon amount, did need extensions though. Glad he didn't dip out on repaying.

Glad he is in a better place now.