u/9zer

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Why do some people in Dubai respond to me instead of my wife, even when she asks the questions?

If you follow more traditional values where the man asks the questions, that's not a problem to me, you do you. What I find strange is when we walk into a store for her, she's the one doing the browsing with me following, and when she asks a question, they address me in their response instead of her? It seems disrespectful to me, but perhaps there's something I'm not aware of that could explain it?

Edit: I would like to add that this has only been my experience here. I've been to other muslim countries like Malaysia and Indonesia where it doesn't happen.

Edit 2: I think from what I've gathered, culture is partly the reason, but there is also an aspect of social awkwardness, as some people may have not spent a lot of time speaking with women

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