I need help to make up my mind: ALT debulking or not?!
I need help, are here any guys who are willing to share their experiences?
First of I had stage 0 meta and stage 1 ALT at Dr. Lubos Kliniken, Germany.
My current standpoint is this, I am around 5.5 inch (15cm) in length and a little less in girth. I feel like my phallo is too heavy and definitely too big for my body (I am a small guy 5'3/1,60m, 55kg) and if I pictured my perfect dick I would have definitely imagined it smaller. But I am getting used to packing my size, I have incredible sensation and I like the shape of it. I also don't mind how it looks in the mirror.
What I do mind is that I get looks in the locker room. Like, it definitely looks unnatural on me. I swapped being worried about my dick being too small against my dick being too big!
What I mind the most is that I can't really let it hang cause it's too heavy and I can't fit it into pants, I always have to wear it pointing up to my belly which is not exactly how I imagined life with a dick, but I have pretty much also gotten used to that.
I had a consultation in March with my original surgeon for my next steps. He strongly advocated AGAINST me getting debulking. His arguments were that it might destroy the shape of the phallo and that it might still shrink over time and altogether, he doesn't think it necessary that I get debulking.
So I have scheduled my next surgery for Monday which for me includes UL hook up, scrotoplasty and glansplasty. I also asked if it was possible to get a little bit of debulking done during the UL hook up, which would mean cutting out the nasty scar with a bit of access skin but would cost me the glansplasty during this step.
But that sounded like a fair trade in for me.
Now here comes the twist. I got a call from the chief surgeon of the clinic and he now strongly advocated FOR me getting debulking.
His argument was basically that the only way to achieve size and weight reduction is liposuction and that they will not be able to do glansplasty and install an ED at my current size.
I don't get why they wouldn't be able to do glansplasty but I do get the problem with the ED. Thing is, I am not sure if I really want an ED anyway. I think it would be kinda cool, but I would be okay without it.
For me getting the debulking now would mean to cancel my appointment on Monday and no guarantee for when the next one will be. Also no UL hook up and no scrotoplasty. If I get the liposuction done will need another 6 months of wrapping and waiting period to schedule the new appointment and probably a year for the next surgery which would then be plication. Still no UL hook up. Plus then another extra surgery for shortening.
I had my phallo creation in March 2025. I have been waiting for UL hook up for over a year. UL was the most important part why I wanted phallo and if I start the debulking process I am looking at at least another 2-3 years of waiting period for my UL hook up. And honestly I couldn't live with myself if my original surgeon was right and the shape somehow got messed up for the debulking.
But the chief surgeon strongly adviced me to look at the final goal and if I don't do the liposuction now it will not be possible for me anymore to get any debulking after getting the UL hook up.
Guys, is debulking worth that for me?