I keep meeting women I'm genuinely compatible with but can't make myself commit & makes me feel guilty
To keep it short over the last few months i've been putting my self out there more and i've been meeting multiple women I'm genuinely compatible with , they're all pretty , smart , well educated, tall , non-religious , left leaning women ( which is my preference ) .
The problem is that no matter how well things go, I can't see myself in something long term. I lose the pull toward commitment somewhere between "this is great" and "this is becoming serious" . And the worst part isn't the ending itself , it's watching someone get hurt. They say they won't, I half-believe them, and then at some point there are tears and a heaviness I caused, and it makes me feel guilty
edit: i make it clear that i am not interested in anything long term , and the girl agrees to it but gets their feelings hurt anyways .