u/Acrobatic-Middle-678

In Islam a woman has to cover her hair yet she is expected to have long hair for husband. Predators can grab your hair and drag you across the floor. Long hair is a big vulnerability that’s why men have short hair and women have long hair. If a woman dyes her hair a different colour people call her “crazy”.  If a woman has short hair she is called ugly because it takes away control from society you can't pull her hair anymore or demand her hair to be covered up because it doesn't exist anymore.

The instructor told the trainee that he ASKED a woman at his job for help who had large chest. He described that when she would help him her chest would go in his face. He then got agitated and said that it made him uncomfortable and that he is allowed to tell her to back off. He told his coworkers about this situation and they told him that "she probably didn't know that she was doing that". He said what she did was not right and he was just 19 years old at that time and did not know what to do.

Why would he even ask her for help if he was just going to act like an asshole?

Whenever I report these type of things they just tell me its a: "communication misunderstanding" and that he has ADHD. They told me "he has to teach boys who have autism or intellectual disabilities about these uncomfortable topics". Like these aren't boys they are grown adult men. The compony I work for has to help the disabled community so they can get government funding so there is nothing I can really do.

A disable women is obviously gonna struggle with wearing a purse. That disabled women would be called a "triggered feminist", "illogical" "overemotional etc" and is told to go and find different solutions to solve the problem instead of holding billion dollar corporations accountable she is told to go sew pockets into her pants, buy mens pants which is most likely not gonna fit they'll be too small or have the wrong proportions. Instead of asking a billion dollar corporations to change that will cost them virtually nothing. Even people who are anti capitalist hate women for criticizing products but a man who is a literal rapist is given so much empathy people are constantly told to "think about his future", "mens mental health", "he can't control himself" and thats why you should empathize with him.

A poor man in a third world country has an easier life then a rich women I saw this documentary of a poor man who had like 10 wives. He did no work the wives did all the child care, cooking, cleaning, farm work etc. The poor man ask the missounary guy "how much wives he had". The missionary replied with "one". The poor man laughed at him.

I see a lot of videos about how cool Dubai is and all the money they have but Dubai is just Afghanistan with money for example women who live in Dubai vs women who are tourist have different rights women who live in Dubai can not go to certain touristy areas because they have to follow a different dress codes, they can be sent back to there abusive husband, they need male guardianship just to go outside and a women’s testimony is worth half of a man. This is similar to Afghanistan because in Afghanistan women who are tourist are given more rights then women who actually live there women who actually live in Afghanistan are not even allowed to go to school, see a doctor, they have to wear a burka, they can not leave there house without a man etc but women who are tourist can go to parks that ban women, they don’t have to wear the burka, they can eat in public, laugh, talk and there even given free things from the local shops because they are tourist. Both Afghanistan and Dubai have different rights for women who are tourist vs women who are not tourist.

Dubai is so progressive compared to other muslim countries because they rely on FEMALE TOURIST MONEY no women or at least very few women would go there if Dubai was overly misogynistic. Afghanistan is trying to be like Dubai where female tourist gets all the rights because they get money from them, they get good publicity and they make their religion look good while women who actually live there gets no rights.

Like men with anger issues will never forgive you because you made them slightly annoyed but women are expected to forgive men who are CONSTANTLY physically abusive and cause so much pain.

I knew a disabled guy who was in a wheelchair he was very misogynistic he talks about how women should wear the hijab yet he wears whatever he wants. He made a joke and said that “if a woman did not wear the hijab in his country she would go to jail” and then he started laughing. He traveled to all these countries in the Middle East but as a woman I would have never been able to do that since the laws for women are so strict. He says he prefers living in Saudi Arabia than to live in Canada like why doesn’t he just live there. He just lives in Canada for the disability benefits and then travels back to Saudi Arabia to get even more disability benefits. He would always ask women to do things for him like he would drop something and ask a woman to help him pick it up. Disabled MEN like specifically Men know how to manipulate the system for getting extra cash they also have the "ability" to do that because the whole entire world feels empathy for them just because there a man.

Which makes zero sense to me because why would you want a small ribcage? you would have less oxygen going into your lungs, its easier to break a rib and if you wear a bra and you have a very small ribcage the bra can press down against your ribs and hurt you. Having narrow shoulders makes it harder to carry things. I also hate how women say that they do not want to work out cause they will look "muscular". Like who cares? do you not want people to see your effort its like they train there legs a lot which is good but not there arms it just looks so disproportionate. 

it really makes me think how much of the physical difference from men and women are socially constructed.

Violent men causes so much suffering to humanity thru wars, homicides, mutilation etc. It is so crazy to me how normalize it is for men to punch holes in the wall and everyone just tells women to sympathize with them. A man who punches holes in the wall should NEVER be forgiven. Like imagine waking up having a period and cramping you are the most PHYSICALLY vulnerable at that time and then a man just punches a hole in the wall that feels so dehumanizing. Especially if you have painful periods You wake up in so much pain its so hard to get thru the day yet a man can do such violence and then he gets sympathy while your just expected to endure.

The highest grossing film in places like the Middle East like Saudi Arabia, Pakistan etc is Avatar  where the Navi literally walk around topless with there hair showing. 

Why isn’t there a word for “handsome privilege”? men get way more privilege for being attractive then women. Like no one deepfakes attractive male celebrities in porn, no one criticize what they wear or hate mob them unlike female celebrities.

Kamala was a million times better looking than Trump and she never won the election. In places like Afghanistan and the Middle East women have to cover up their hair to hide their “beauty” like being beautiful is a crime.