Husband texting ex girlfriend normal for Koreans?
Me (F24) and my husband (M26) are almost married for two years now . He dated this girl back in Korea who he knew for 4 years in college they dated for six months in total before headed for the us to start school again. We met a year later and got married on our one year. During that first year his ex reached out to his for the first time since they broke up by sending him a couple voice memos in kakao about how she moved and that she found a picture of them when they were together and thought he should know . They have friends in common so she already knew he was married. He told me as soon as that happened and I told him if he wanted to respond he could then she goes to say in a voice memos talking about when is he coming back to Korea that they should meet up and that he should buy her some good food. I told him to respond let me ask my wife she never responded after that. Fast forward to this week we have our wedding ceremony in korea for his family and when he was sending out invitations he had asked me if he could send it to her I told him it was up to him. Turns out that she had asked I a group chat with their mutual friends why she didn’t receive an invitation and that’s why he asked me. But since we’ve been here she’s been nonstop contacting him and he’s been responding I already told him how it makes me feel and he said he could ignore her but I told him if it’s that hard to ignore her the obviously there’s something you want to say to her. She even said or your back in Korea did you buy me gift and instead of him replying why would I buy you a gift he said he had no money to buy a gift . He doesn’t even mention he his wife at all when texting her. He messages her like if he was here alone. Yesterday was when I brought it up again that it makes me feel like he’s cheating cause he texts her when we’re together and I said how would he feel if I was texting my ex boyfriend he said bad yet today he still messaged her but this time when we were apart and when he came back I asked him about if he texted her back and he said no but I literally saw the messages and he said ah i don’t want to text her I just replied but they had a whole conversation. What are your thoughts on this.