Afraid I won't last as a trial PD because of 50-60 hour work weeks.
I will start work as a trial PD in my home state and according to my friends who are also PDs in this state in similar population counties I am almost certainly going to work close to 60hours a week. I am terrified that I will be forced to quit my dream job because of the strain this will put on my relationship with my wife. Ideally with experience my hours will go down (I dont think that's a realistic expectation though) or I will be able to transition to appellate defense, but idk if I can last long enough in trial work to transition in my state. Public defense is my dream job, but I won't allow it to come between me and my best friend.
Would appreciate any tips for working long hours and maintaining my marriage. (Im not as concerned with the subject matter of the job on my mental health, I believe I have healthy expectations)