u/Affectionate_Walk902

As time goes on, I've noticed some people's sensitivity to judgment, as if it's something we shouldn't do or is forbidden. But in my opinion, we're all human, each with our own opinions, our own mindset, our own perspective. We might disagree with this person or that, and that's perfectly normal as long as it's done within the bounds of respect and not crossing any lines.

If you want to be heard without judgment, there are Professional people available for it (although I feel like we're also judged internally). It's something a person can't control unless they're at a high level of openness, to the point where they barely have their own opinion on it.

Even with the term "unconditional love" it's not entirely accurate. Many relationships end. The love might still be there, but the boundaries have crumbled, trust has vanished, and our perception of our loved one has been shattered. We have limits and standards, and dealbreakers . It's impossible for us to forgive someone we love for cheating, disrespecting us, or doing something that harms us, simply because "love" alone isn't enough. If we rely solely on love, we'll inevitably lose ourselves in the process of maintaining the relationship.

This is a diary entry I wrote today and translated into English. I apologize for any spelling mistakes. Thank you if you've made it this far. Take care.

Why Russian men kinda obsessed with it?😭😭(i’m not Russian (gasp)