u/Alarming-Bobcat-5378

My wife and I are driven people, and on top of both working full time average jobs, we are gardening, keeping chickens, keeping bees, renovating our home, starting a distillery, and raising sports involved teenagers. Recently I realized that in our mid 40’s we are so busy that we don’t really try to spend time with other people anymore, and no one asks to spend time with us either. I’m torn between wondering why people don’t invite us for anything or are not interested at all, and not missing other people and don’t care because we are doing what makes us happy and just poke our head up to breathe and look around once in awhile. It’s just a weird evolution of what our lives have become. Maybe everyone is so busy trying to keep up with costs that people are becoming more isolated as a whole.