I used to say this all the time because I always interpreted it as "is the room/temptature hot or am I the only one sweating?" but I was watching a movie one day and a guy used it as a pickup line and now I've stopped saying it cause I didn't realize it could have romantic intrepations. how do y'all feel about someone saying that to you? just been thinking
so I haven't officially officially been diagnosed but my therapist did say "it is something that we will explore in future sessions" so like obviously. And it's got me super fucked up and ever since she said that I've noticed all the things that I thought were just personality quirks or strange thoughts are actually OCD and I'm noticing it everywhere and honestly I feel like her telling me made my life worse I don't know what to do I wish I could stop thinking. how do you cope with getting an OCD diagnosis because honestly my world is spinning and I feel like some serious pillars of my life are crashing down and no one I know has OCD so I don't know who to talk to or how to cope with this life changing information. I feel like I wish she never said anything and I could've just gone through life better not knowing
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me and my partner adopted our CH cat back in June and ever since then we've probably said the sentence "oh no he faleled obver!" at least 200 times LOL thought I'd share in case anyone else would find it funny, our cat's name is Cornbread and he's on the second slide
hello me and my partner (both men early 20s) just moved into our own apartment 🥳🥳 but it's very bright and sterile and plain obviously we can't paint the walls or do much about the terrible lighting but how can we make the place feel much more comfortable and less like a hospital wing? also can anyone tell me where I can get a good mlm pride flag that isn't polyester or at least decently made? thank you!!!
hi so I have avoidant Restricted food intake disorder which basically means that my brain sounds the 🚨🚨POISON🚨🚨 alarm at new and unusual foods. I really hate bitter and mushy things and growing up my mother didn't know how to cook vegetables that wasn't bland mush from a can which mean I now have a different almost phobic like aversion to vegetables so please be kind I know it's not healthy I know I can't avoid vegetables forever whatever you're going to say I promise I Know and yes I've tried that method and that one too my brains will still hit the breaks and make me nauseous or throw up
anyways so my parents never taught me how to cook like anything at all and my partner grew up low income so his diet mostly consistent of frozen food due to this we eat out a lot but we moved in together and want to be healthier (as in taking steps to improve)
here's some things we generally love and let me know if y'all can come up with anything
any kind potatoes are a big staple
rice
all seafood
ramen
chicken & beef we're not huge fans of beef but we enjoy a good recipe
I have a really good crockpot mac n cheese that if y'all can give me a vegetable that wouldn't be noticable in it and can "blend in" that would be fantastic
extra firm tofu
turkey
cheese
bread & bread like items (ie pizza and biscuits tortillas etc)
I like pasta but I haven't found a sauce yet that I like so recommendations that isn't tomato based
most sweets are good and I love baking
and then mixins like butter, seasoning, garlic oil etc don't bother us at all nor does like style or ethnic food recipes
this isn't a comprehensive list but yeah sorry this is long thank you!!
generally looking for crockpot recipes and oven recipes as I'm not good pan on the stove cooker but my partner is