Removal of conditions with marriage waiver
Hi everyone, im hoping to get advice or testimonials of people who might have been thru the same thing as me or are currently going through it, i am lawyered up when i file but right now just want to hear from people that might have went thru the same thing(it’s a long read but id really appreciate the effort into reading and replying!)
I am 22(M) and wife is the same age and we’re about to hit 3 years of marriage this june but we’ve recently become incompatible together, life has pulled us apart into separate ways, i grew closer to god and wanted to step away from the drinking smoking and the partying life but she got deeper into the night life and started hanging around the wrong crowd, it really started when she became 21 but i was able to talk her away from that for some time but these last few months its like all the rails came off and she is out every weekend either out at a club or at a party without me cuz i didn’t want to follow her down that crooked path, i was almost sure it would lead to infidelity but she guaranteed it was just to go out and have a good time with her gfs till i recently got evidence she’s been with other guys(not sexual videos but her being up on a guy and holding hands with another). i am about to file for divorce and scared that she’ll become bitter or butt hurt and try to jeopardize me or make things difficult so i wish to know how much am i still gonna have to rely on her even when i go the marriage waiver route? i asked if she was gonna have to still sign off on any paperwork and my lawyer told me not really she’d probably just have to write a letter at most explaining why things didn’t work, i have plenty of evidence of her alcoholic night life tendencies, some weed usage, and of course some infidelity evidence
My conditional green card was given to me November 2024 and is expiring this November 2026 so i am about to have to come around to filing for the ROC in august but i just want to do things the easiest way i don’t know if the infidelity does anything as far as helping my case? could it be considered hardship or mental abuse? im not looking to benefit from it, it truly is a hurtful thing to have happen to you but i just dont want all the effort into doing things the right way go to waste.
Evidence i have of a bonafide marriage: joint lease on house, lots of og&e bills in both our names, a personal loan in both our names as well as joint bank account, she’s on my dental insurance as well as life insurance beneficiary with alot of pictures with family and friends in public areas (let me know if that’s a good foundation of evidence as far as bonafide marriage)
And again i will be going over all of this with my lawyer i just wanted some personal opinions/perspectives. thank you to anyone that took the time to read and give feedback!