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M4F | Looking for a Meaningful Connection Leading to Marriage
Hi everyone,
I’m a 22-year-old Rajput (Thakur) from Himachal Pradesh, currently working in the IT sector in Delhi/NCR.
I believe in building a genuine connection by getting to know someone personally before involving families. My goal is to find a meaningful relationship that can eventually lead to marriage if we are compatible.
A bit about me:
Profession: Working in the IT industry
Community: Rajput (Thakur)
Values: Family-oriented, respectful, ambitious, and emotionally mature
Lifestyle: Balanced mix of traditional and modern values
Interests: Travelling, long drives, exploring good food, and meaningful conversations
What I’m looking for:
Someone from the Rajput community (to align with family preferences)
Based in Delhi/NCR or open to relocation
Educated, career-oriented, and family-focused
Someone who values honesty, mutual respect, and clear communication
Important Note:
I’m not looking for casual dating or time pass. I’m interested in a serious connection that could lead to marriage.
If you feel we may be compatible, feel free to send me a brief introduction about yourself.
Thanks, and best wishes to everyone in their search.

[supprimé]

I matched with a girl named “Bhavika” (21) on Happn. Her profile said she was living in Delhi (Moti Bagh area), around 4 km away, and she mentioned she was originally from Ayodhya, UP.

We chatted for a short time, exchanged numbers, and she asked me to meet near Durgabai Deshmukh South Campus. We walked around the café area, and while we were there, a guy approached her and suggested we go to a particular café. She agreed immediately, which felt a bit unusual.

Once inside, she ordered:
- Hookah
- Veg platter
- 2 Coke cans

When the bill came, it was ₹4,967, which seemed extremely high for these items.

The waiter’s name was Imran, and I have his contact details from the UPI payment record. I am not sharing any phone numbers publicly, but I can provide them to authorities if needed.

The whole situation felt suspicious, and I suspect:

1. The girl may be working with the café.
2. The man who approached us may be part of the setup.
3. The café may be overcharging people brought in through dating apps.

I’m posting this to warn others and to ask if anyone else has experienced something similar in this area.

I have screenshots of the Happn profile, chat, and bill (with personal details hidden).

If you’ve faced a similar situation around South Campus or nearby cafés, please share your experience.