u/Alternative_Task8397

hi! 27 f recently had an abnormal pap smear for HPV18. i’m getting a colposcopy in 2/3 weeks. prior to the diagnosis/pap, i hooked up with 3 new men, and one other i haven’t been with in a while. of those, 2/4 used protection but all of them ate me out. also i have no presence of genital warts. here are my questions:

1. do i need to disclose t

o my recent past partners

1. that i have HPV? google said no and my doctor didn’t mention it, but it feels wrong not to?
2. two of them have reached out to me about continuing our relationship and hooking up again and i’m unsure of what my options are. this feels like an, i need to be celibate until it clears sorta thing, and im not sure if it actually is. can we have penetrative sex with condoms? can they go down on me? hand stuff on me? it feels very confusing and i’m unsure of what the right limits are.

sorry if these are dumb questions or anything i just truly DO NOT KNOW! and google is not helping me much. thank you!