COB Advice
Hey sweet gals! My daughter decided to go COB because she feels she just didn’t connect with the girls at the final two houses she got during sisterhood. Of course she had a few heartbreaks from the first and second cuts. Speaking with her tonight she just sounds so defeated. After learning so much about rush these days at bama over the last month, I realize her not putting absolutely everything she’s done on her resume may have hurt her, didn’t have her final transcript yet so went with the unweighted we had at the time, no coaching, rehearsing, etc. I guess we could have been over the top like many but I was all about just being your true self (with great clothes and jewelry 😂). I don’t want her to give up because she feels unwanted or has some fear of more rejection. I’m also worried that maybe the COB girls are super aggressive and maybe she should be? I feel like she checks so many of the boxes but maybe we didn’t present it as well as we should have?! Any advice for her going through COB? Should she be reaching out and being pursuant of houses she wanted (wants)? Being from AL and experiencing game days and having family who’s been in sororities at Bama, this is something she’s wanted for sooo long. Any advice, support or guidance would be amazing. Just looking to help her reshift and go after what she wants! Ask me questions for more context if needed! 😭😂 ❤️