u/Ambitious_Address123

I find it hard to adjust to customer facing SDE role (FDE)

Hi everyone,

Recently became FDE (Forward deployed engineer), previously was an IC only.
FDE is basically a fancy word for Implementation Consultant for AI projects in US Big Tech.

The amount of stress I get on a daily basis is beyond imaginable.

The stakeholder management is the most difficult part.

Any general advice who made the same transition?

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u/Ambitious_Address123 — 9 hours ago

- 6 years in legal, 8 years in tech.

- mid 30s

- 2 different degrees done with 10 years difference (in different countries): law, and cs

- house, wife, family

- not much savings (for now, most $ went into the house), but stable financially and future prospects are also not bad (regular life so to say).

- live near nature, but close enough to city.

Very likely to have adhd or something like this: regular jobs at corporate feels boring after 1-2 years, in top very well paid corporations I get too much stressed out after half a year. Usually held a job for 2.5-3 years then switch. Conundrum: working with customers/stakeholders stresses me out, working purely internally is boring.

I just want to gather any advices if anyone would suggest something. Not urgent, just idea.

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u/Ambitious_Address123 — 22 days ago