Lateraling to same team with spouse - bad idea?
Partner and I are both mid-level transactional attorneys at two separate V50s in the Midwest. We have been together for 3 years. We are looking to relocate and have been applying at V10 firms as we do not want to do an internal transfer.
The lateral market has been admittedly harder than we imagined, but one firm in particular looks to be in growth mode as we are both interviewing there at the moment (in the same team).
Thinking ahead, say we were both to get offers here, would it be a bad idea for both of us accept? I don’t think this would be against firm policy, but I’m trying to get a sense check on whether this is career / relationship suicide. We’re both professional and hardworking and the team seems large enough to absorb us both, but I’m unsure about the optics piece here and if it might impact our careers and opportunities more broadly. Or would others simply not care provided the work gets done?
Has anyone dealt with or observed this scenario before? Any tips or thoughts more generally would be appreciated. Getting a role at another firm is probably possible, but imagine it might take a few extra months, as it has been tricky to date. Though that’s always an option if this is a resounding bad idea.