u/Apprehensive_Put2221

i took ecp a month ago and im still scared

im 18f and i took ecp a day after doing it with my man (18m) a month ago. we were both new to this kind of stuff andwe were each other’s first time. we only had 1 protection and it dried immediately before using it. i didnt think he would still try to put it in inside without protection but i didnt stop him (which ik i shouldve) anw while doing it, i dont think the whole thing was inside, he said it was probably the tip or half of it only but when he took it out, this white liquid dripped from his thing to my stomach. according to him, he hasnt come yet so i was thinking it was probably mine but i still panicked. we bought ecp the next day and took it. a week later, i bled for 5 days like it was a normal period (at first i thought it was my real period and it turns out to be withdrawal bleeding from the pill). it has been a month and 2 weeks since the incident and lately, my nips has been sore and ive been having these cramps but it doesnt feel like my normal pre-menstrual cramps. also, a few days ago my lower back was hurting and i’ve been really irritated too. i already took 5 tests this month and all of them came back negative so idk what to do anymore.

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u/Apprehensive_Put2221 — 20 hours ago