u/Aprkacb20

What a relief! They were becoming exhausting to watch. Nicks problem was he was too concerned about displeasing Courteney. Her problem is she did not leave space for him to be himself; she was too demanding and critical. The best is for people to be themselves and decide what they both can and should do to be better as a couple. Nick could never open up to her because as soon as he did she criticized it. Then she became frustrated because he pulled back. She was the hard one but he needed a more gentle ( and calm) woman. Nick stay off reality shows!

So at E19 when Adam mentioned his "Ex" that met all his sports and competitive requirements I wanted Marissa to say so "Why didn't it work out?" I believe it may have been the same one Paul MADE HIM call that he "wasn't serious" about ( before the wedding). If she was so great why come on the show? I think he was trying to scare Marissa into doing what he wanted. Marissa finally spoke up. Her boundaries were reached, good for her! I personally dont think he's husband material, for now.

So did anyone else feel the couples went in a little bit hard on Mecca/ Belle and Shawn/Nikki? Except for Michelle ( imo she was doing too much), the others ( Courteney and Devin) have their own problems. Devin steady begging Caitlin to like him and Courteney not very self aware. Nick is very stiff and they were right to press him for more. I just felt they needed to talk about themselves not critiquing the other couples in the therapist session. I think chilly Kaitlin got off easy but I guess acknowledging her husband now feels small ( because of her) was indirect correction.

So having had skin issues from birth, I notice other people's skin. One of the ladies this season has a ton of something, freckles? There was a scene where her back showed and it was surprising there were so many. It looks like she uses makeup or something to soften them at times. I use similar things but I have been trying to figure out if they are freckles, moles or somethings she needs to watch. Moles can go kind of crazy sometimes.

Normally I feel the couples put too much emphasis on chemistry and type. But they are so uncomfortable with eachother it's hard to watch. I think Chelsea is nursing resentment about all the reality shows he's been on. It's understandable really because she may feel she's just a stopover to the next reality show. Valid concern. I don't know. Maybe they'll click. I'm only on E4. Oops Courteney not Chelsea.