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Mera end sem exam abhi khatam hua hai aur ab almost 2-3 mahine ka gap rahega

2-3 din pehle ek ladki dekhi thi named Tanu Woh meri ek female dost ke saath thi Bas ek baar dekha tha but kaafi cute lagi

Kal maine apni dost ki story and snap me usko fir dekha toh casually puch liya ki “yeh hamare college me hai kya”

Usne bola nahi samne wale college ki hai

Fir maine mazak me bola ki “kuch baat ban sakti hai kya”

Usne meri pics maangi aur bola ki Tanu ko dikha ke baat karegi

Aaj subah uska message aaya “thik h kr lugi baat”

Toh maine Tanu ko request bhej di hai Abhi accept ka wait chal raha hai

Ab confusion ye hai ki next move kya hona chahiye?

Accept hote hi text karu ya thoda wait karu?

First convo kis type ki honi chahiye?

Aur desperate lage bina interest kaise show karte ho?

Kyuki honestly mujhe dating/flirting ka zyada experience nahi hai💀

There was a girl who looked around 15–16 Her face and body were fully covered which at first I ignored because people dress differently for different reasons But then I noticed burn like marks on her hands like cigarette burns and one of her toes looked broken

After some time an old man noticed me looking and said kya dekh rha ha Then a woman sitting beside the girl immediately changed seats with another man almost like they didn’t want anyone noticing her

What disturbed me the most was the man with them looked around 30–35

Maybe I don’t know the full story But nothing about that situation felt normal And the fact that a scared minor girl traveling with people twice her age doesn’t make anyone stop and question things says a lot about society

If even half of what I suspected was true then that girl needed help not silence

I used to be really good friends with this girl back in school but after streams classes changed we stopped talking completely for years

Then randomly in 2025 she texted me about something and we started talking again During Valentine week our chats got really engaging flirting fast replies teasing all that It genuinely felt like there was mutual interest

But right after that week her whole tone shifted Replies became dry rude-ish and sometimes she’d reply 5 to 7 days later This happened multiple times I’d send a reel or start a convo then she’d disappear again Eventually I stopped trying because I figured she just wasn’t interested and I respected that

Now suddenly today she sent me a reel out of nowhere

I’m confused about what this behavior usually means from an outside perspective

Is this benching keeping someone around for attention?

Is she just inconsistent and casual with texting?

Or do some people genuinely fluctuate like this even when interested?

I’m not trying to force anything or overthink one reel I just don’t want to misread mixed signals again

Would you continue talking normally or keep emotional distance unless the effort becomes consistent?