u/AshamedPapaya199X

Skl. Ayun na nga akala ko safe kami sa mga unwanted requests ng family members hahaha kasi from the moment na-engage kami super supportive lang ng families namin both sides. Walang demands or anything basta kung ano daw gusto namin.

But I have this one Tita abroad super close ko talaga and as soon as she heard of our engagement, she said she’ll give us Pxx,xx to help with expenses. We’re paying for the wedding ourselves with our own savings pero syempre when she offered we were immensely grateful and accepted the help. We already received partial of it through my Dad.

Earlier I was out with my Mom and she mentioned Tita talked to Dad and requested to add 10 guests. She’ll pay for their seats/food daw. I was surprised kasi wala siya nasabi saken. Wala din pa sinasabi Dad ko saken kasi baka humahanap tyempo hahaha. Cause I was very vocal na limited lang talaga ang maiinvite namin. Factors are of course yung alloted budget lang namin, wanting only people we actually know or have a relationship with with us on our special day, and lastly ideal capacity ng nabook naming venue.

Although I’m confident Tita will not push for it if we say no pero ayun na nga ang hirap na tumanggi since we accepted her financial help and ofcourse ayaw mong magtampo sya lol