u/Astraeous

if this isn't allowed please delete but i need some advice. I have been my worship teams Guitar/bassist for 18 years now. But, lately i have had to miss because my kids have been sick alot this year. The problem i have is when i return the next week/ service all i hear is, hey we missed you on guitar/bass last week. or man not having that bass last week was rough. I feel like its not me who is missed but just my ability to play music. is this right or am i seeing it wrong. i just feel like i myself outside of music isn't being seen by anyone. a few weeks ago someone said, oh i didn't know you were the beginners sunday school teacher, which i have been for 3 years. it just hurts i guess.