u/Average_Uranium_fan

What's the sound of abandoned in witchcraft?

Hiii I'm Romanian my grandma was a witch (she did fortune-telling and birth talisman for farm animals to have an easy birth and undo curses and evil eye) she passed away a while ago and I met her friend recently we started talking and I told her that I feel like I'm being cursed because I feel an unknown almost out of my body feeling of depression desperation and unluck like everything went well and suddenly I can't even find a job because of that feeling. And she said the first way to know someone cursed you is "the sound of abandoned/deserted" in their ears but... What exactly is that how can I know the sound of abandoned. Is there any other sign I should check out?